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What is a man but the sum of his thoughts?


Dr. Leslie Weatherhead's
Why Do Men Suffer?
 
Is Death a Calamity?

AT Manchester I had the privilege of meeting an exceptionally brilliant man with whom I had a conversation that lasted far into the night. The question that was on his mind could be stated like this: "How do you know that the soul goes on; and even if it does, why are we subjected to this terrifying experience of dying?"

A book which seeks to give help with the problem of suffering ought to have a chapter on what have been called "the pains of death." For it is true to say that he who has not contemplated the problem of death has never contemplated life deeply. A working-class woman told a friend that she had listened to a youth of nineteen criticizing the present world-order and religious situation.

This was wrong, and that was wrong. She silenced him with the following surprising and seemingly irrelevant remark: "Young man, you will think differently on many matters when you have stood by a deathbed." This was not a mere damping of youthful ardor, but a very wise remark, for the fact of death is one of the hardest facts of life and must be faced by any person who would make his view complete.

I therefore want to face now "this business of dying." I hope to write later a few paragraphs about the vast subject of immortality; but first of all let us recognize how many people there are who can contemplate entry into another world, with joy, but it is the thought of the dreadful valley between, which daunts them. Even Bunyan dreaded it and called it "a horror and a great darkness." I have had the confidence of so many people who are brave in regard to suffering but terrified at the thought of dying, that I would like to offer them some good news.

  • Let us collect some evidence. Surely, it is a wise way, in trying to face any particular problem, to collect all the available evidence, and then, whatever deductions we make, they will be well based.

I give my own testimony first, because it is the least important, and I want to say, at once, that in my experience as a minister and army chaplain, an experience covering about twenty years, I must have seen scores of people dying, and I have never known the actual moment of passing to be marked by any kind of terror or anxiety.

  • It has always been a peaceful and beautiful thing.

Scores of doctors and ministers whom I have consulted say the same thing. Of course, everyone will recognize that in a large number of cases unconsciousness supervenes before death occurs. But when a person passes out with his conscious life maintained until the end, the evidence is simply overwhelming that death is a beautiful experience, though we have for so long been intimidated into an opposite belief.

I have seen people, for instance, who for many weary weeks could not lift their heads from the pillow, sit up at the moment of death and stretch out their arms, with a smile of utter rapture on their faces. I have heard people, again and again, breathe the name of someone who had passed over before them.

  • One friend with whom I sat, kept saying, almost under his breath, "How beautiful it looks through the gates," and he gave one the impression of a person pressing on to some unbelievably beautiful experience. He spoke repeatedly of flowers.

My own sister, thought to be dying of pneumonia, told me that she understood that they did not expect her to live, and she couldn't understand their tears, for she was wrapped in an incredible sense of well-being, with marvelous music sounding in her ears. At last she heard someone say, "She's going to get better," and she felt distinct disappointment at being pulled back from a delightful prospect. Convalescence, she said afterward, was sheer misery! She told me that she looked at her loved ones with a kind of incredulous smile, as one who would say, "You may call this getting better, but it is a very dull experience compared with the one I nearly entered."

  • I do not imply, of course, actual "gates of heaven" or "music," but impressions which got through to human consciousness in that form.

I will not occupy too much space with a large number of similar cases, but I should like to quote two more.

A well-known journalist, Mr. W. C. Edgar, wrote an article in The Spectator (Feb. 11, 1928) called "The Adventure of Dying." He tells how he was advised to have a very dangerous operation, although at the time, as far as he knew, he was in perfectly good health. He thus went to the operation in a condition far different from the exhausted body and mind of many patients. He had a local anesthetic, and as he lay on the table he said to himself:

"I am going to bring to this occasion the instincts of my craft. This is a very interesting event, in which I am going to take the leading part. I am about to enter the famous 'valley of the shadow of death,' and few have returned therefrom to tell the tale. My wits are all about me, I am not drugged into unconsciousness. I am able to see and hear and reason clearly, and will be to the end. I am going to make careful notes of this adventure and afterward set down all its details."

He then goes on to describe the sense of ebbing and flowing life, and says,

  • "I became absolutely convinced, beyond the shadow of a doubt, that this life element in me was indestructible, and that whatever happened to the body in which it had heretofore existed, it would survive and henceforth be imperishable."

Then he makes a more striking statement still. He tells us that his bias was in favor of going on into the unknown rather than returning to natural life. It was only the remembrance of his family and friends, and loyalty to the efforts of the surgeon, that made him exert himself in a powerful wish to live.

His physician afterward told him that his heart had been alarmingly affected, and that several times he (the physician) thought he was about to go. They both concluded that the heart action represented first the desire to slip away, and then the powerful effort to remain living.

He says, "The absolute certainty that death was not the end but merely a new beginning, was pre-eminent in my mind." He says another thing which will be of interest to us:

  • "Had I lived a blameless moral life, which I had not, I could not have felt less remorse for the past. There was no regret for lost opportunities, no reviewing of life's history, no concern whatever for reward or punishment, only a strong abiding sense of calmness and peace, and that I was in the hands of an infinitely benign Power which cared for me and would protect me from all that was ill; a Power whose attributes were goodness and mercy. The whole scheme of life on this earth, death, and the certain life to come, seemed to have meaning and purpose, to be harmonious, natural, and, above all, beneficent."

That is a piece of disinterested evidence which is worth a very great deal. May I add to that another piece of evidence, from a nurse who had charge of a very difficult, bad-tempered, and irreligious patient, whom we will call Mrs. X. There is not space here to give the whole story, but I will summarize it.

The patient had given a great deal of trouble, and when she felt the approach of death, said, very angrily:

  • "Why should I have to die? So-and-so does not keep her house nearly as clean as I do. I have taken care of my husband and little boy and kept my house clean, why should I die? I call it cruel of God. And I don't want anybody to say any prayers, and I won't see the vicar, not if he comes ever so much, I won't."

The nurse said: "I did not know what to do. My heart ached for her." Then the patient died. The nurse writes, "I will not dwell upon the symptoms of death. They were all present. I closed the eyelids, straightened her hands across her breast, put the sheets tidy and turned to the open window. I stayed there two or three minutes. When I returned to the bed I saw a faint quiver in a muscle of the throat. I told myself that it was nothing, but in another moment there was a tremor of the lips. Horrified, I put a spoon with some brandy into the mouth of Mrs. X.

  • She opened her eyes and said slowly, in a voice I had never heard before, and solemn beyond description, "I have been dead and I am alive again." Then she paused and added: "But all my dying's done. I have seen the angels, two of them by our apple tree, more beautiful than I can tell." The nurse added, "This was the more amazing because Mrs. X had no belief in angels nor any hope of a further life at all."

The nurse gave her some medicine, and after she had drunk it she said, "I am always going to do what they want." When the doctor came in she repeated the same words and he laughed at her and said she had never been dead. She said to him: "Don't laugh. It is all true. I have seen the angels and all my dying's done." The nurse added, "When the spirit really left the body twenty-four hours later, it was like the gentlest falling asleep of a little child."

Curiously enough, that nurse, afterward, went very near death herself. She said, "I heard the doctor saying to another nurse, 'Can you still feel the pulse, nurse?' and his voice sounded far off and of no consequence. Then he spoke louder and asked me to rouse myself, and I heard my own voice answer, 'No, I don't want to.' I was with my father, who had been dead some years, and I had seen the face of my dear brother who was drowned when I was a little girl, but alas! the gates had closed against me and I had to come back." I want the reader to notice the word "alas."

Nor does the evidence of the specialist conflict with this. The famous specialist, Sir H. Thompson, says, "I venture to state as a known result of long and careful observation of the phenomena which occur at the close of life, that a really painful death from disease is rarely witnessed."

Sir Frederick Treves, at one time the King's physician, says in his reminiscences, "What is termed the 'agony of death' concerns the watcher by the bedside rather than the being who is the subject of pity. The last illness may be long, wearisome, and painful, but the closing moments of it are free from suffering. Where there appears to be a terrible struggle the subject is unconscious of it... death is the ordinance of God. Not an untimely death, but death at some time or another is the will of God. Sometimes it is hastened by human folly, ignorance, or sin; but it differs from suffering in that many people go through life with little or no physical suffering, but no one escapes death.

Imagine now, for a moment, the unborn babe within his mother's womb. If he had the power to contemplate the life into which he was going to enter, would he not be terrified? In that prenatal life he is warm and cosy and nourished, without effort of his own. What a terrible, cold, friendless place this world would appear, could he dream of it, and how he would dread the process of birth!

  • Yet how beautifully God has arranged that process, for when the baby is first conscious of anything his head is pillowed on his mother's breast, his nourishment is only a few inches away from his mouth, there are arms which hold him very tightly and there are eyes which smile lovingly into his own. If God guards so carefully our entry into this world, will he be careless of our entry into another? Will he not know that we are frightened and timid and lonely, and will he not have taken care that the experience should be beautiful?

Indeed, I think the other life is so wonderful that we have no faculties with which to assess or describe it. Can you imagine yourself rushing in from some glorious sunset and trying to describe it to a man born blind? "It is scarlet and yellow and gold," you say. But the words have no meaning to him. "Scarlet?" he says. "What's that?" You could only say it was like the blare of a trumpet; you could only describe the sense-impression he couldn't receive through one that he could. Yellow, you might say, is like the smell of a lily and gold is like the feel of silk. What sort of sunset would he imagine?

  • We have no faculties to enter even imaginatively the wonders of another life. "Eye hath not seen, nor ear heard, neither have entered into the heart of man the things which God bath prepared for them that love Him."

The analogy reminds me of a similar one used by Doctor Fosdick, and this links us up with the second part of our question, "How do we know that life goes on?" Doctor Fosdick imagines twin babes unborn within the mother, gifted with the power of thought, one a skeptic and the other a believer, and both living without light and without breathing.

  • "The crisis of birth," he says, "tearing them loose from the matrix on which their existence seems fundamentally to depend would appear to them like death. As for picturing the world without it would be impossible. The skeptic babe would say to the believer: 'You want to go on living, and so you think you will, but that is not scientific. Existence depends on present circumstances and when those circumstances go, life goes also.' The believing babe would say: 'I believe there is something afterward. Nature has been at work developing some things that have no meaning here, and nature is not irrational. We cannot picture the new life, but I am confident that nature is not so senseless to undertake such a promising process with no end in view."

So, just as the child within the womb might argue with unimaginable precocity--that eyes and lips and ears involved seeing and tasting and hearing, so man not only finds within himself a passionate desire for more and fuller life, but believes he has powers, latent within him, which can only be expressed in a life wider than this. He craves a world where justice is done, where righteousness triumphs, where loved ones are rejoined.

  • Unless nature is irrational even his power to dream of an immortal life is some kind of argument for its probability.

The alternative is that this splendid achievement of nature which we call man (man who would fiercely deny that he is no greater than any other form of organic life), can be pushed out of existence by a germ so small that a million can sit on the head of a pin. The whole rationality of nature is impeached if nature's final consummation can be utterly annihilated by, say, a fall of coal, or an exploding shell, or a surgeon's mistake.

But, says the skeptic, what is your answer to the view that when the brain dies we end our lives completely? This you will remember was the argument of Sir Arthur Keith, who used the illustration of a candle (though it is very dangerous to argue from analogies), and said that when the candle is done, the flame goes out and when the body is done (and the brain is part of the body) the soul is extinguished.

In his book Phantom Walls, Sir Oliver Lodge says: "The image or illustration is quite a good one; but Sir Arthur did not follow it up as a physicist would. He limited himself to the material particles of the candle, and to the perceptible flame, just as an anatomist would. He did not bethink himself of what was happening in space. The candle was not lighted without an object. Its object was to illuminate something, that is to say, to emit light. And what is light? Not something in the candle, but something which emanates from the candle and goes away into space; something different from matter, though associated with it. The real function of a candle depends on the properties of space; it is emitting something into space which, if space is free and empty of matter, will go on forever. Just as we see the light of a distant star or a nebulous cloud which has been traveling for eight hundred thousand years before it reaches our eye -- for that is how we see, for instance, the great nebula in Andromeda, quite visible to the naked eye on a dark night, we see it as it was eight hundred thousand years ago -- so an observer, with a sufficiently sensitive instrument, could detect the light of the Armada beacons still. Therefore I say the illustration is a good one; and suggests, rather than negatives, the immortality of the soul."

I am rather fond of another kind of analogy. I imagine a man who is dumb but who is a very beautiful violinist. Imagine that he cannot speak in words or even in signs; that he can only play the violin. His violin is his only means of manifestation to the outer world. Now, imagine that the violin represents a man's body which includes his brain, and that the man represents the soul.

  • You will then perceive what the old philosopher meant when he said: "It is not true to say man is a body and has a soul. It is true to say man is a soul and has a body."

At present we are like the man with the violin. He can only express himself through it. Apart from things like telepathy, which we will leave out of our survey for the moment, our body is our only means of manifesting ourselves in the world. In order to convey a message to other people I must use some part of my body, my fist, or my voice, or my eyes, and so on.

But supposing, in our illustration, that somebody smashes the man's violin. Why should we suppose that the man himself is damaged? What is to prevent him finding some other instrument which he can play? And why should we suppose that when a man's body is smashed up or his brain injured or destroyed, that he does not go on and find some other means of manifestation?

The illustration goes further. If a violin is damaged, then it may be that only squeaks can be drawn from it, but the man remains untouched behind it. So in the case of our friends who suffer the mental illness we call insanity. They cannot make contact with us in a normal way, but they themselves are not idiots; it is only that they have either inherited or developed a damaged violin. A player is distinct from a faulty instrument.

For the philosophically minded I would say that this is in harmony with the philosophic theory most widely held at the moment. No philosopher identifies the brain with the personality. The three common theories are epiphenomenalism, parallelism, and interactionism. The first thinks of consciousness as an epiphenomenon, something thrown off by the brain in the course of its activities, but not the purpose of its activities. The best illustration I know is that of sparks given off by the wheels of an engine as it chafes the rails. The second theory, parallelism, suggests that every activity of the brain carries with it a parallel activity in consciousness, and vice versa. But that does not decide which is cause and which is effect. The third theory, interactionism, is the one held by most philosophers; that the brain and the mind are certainly linked together at present; that the two are interlocked in an extraordinary way, but that no one knows what is the relationship between them.

  • Certainly, no thinker would identify mind and brain. When you say "I," you don't mean your brain any more than you mean your fist.

You use your brain with which to think. As a matter of fact, not a particle remains today of the brain you had twenty years ago, and yet you would admit that the things done twenty years ago were done by you, and that if there is either praise or blame it must be charged up to you.

  • If a man, therefore, says "How can I go on when my brain is finished?" it is interesting to answer, "But you have had a dozen brains and you are still going on."

The brain may be the instrument of our thinking, and, if you like, even of our loving, but it is certainly not the source of either. Nobody who has ever seen a human brain on the dissecting table can really believe that that white pulpy mass, as much like sweetbread as anything, can, of itself, produce poems and symphonies and all the glories of art and literature and love.

Pass to another piece of evidence which can be expressed quite simply and briefly. Either God is a devil or he is good, or he is incapable of managing his universe. In other words, he is either bad, good, or stupid. I cannot at this point take time to think those three lines out very carefully or fully. If you are going to say he is evil, there are certain things that might seem to support your theory. But I cannot myself believe that behind lovely flowers, and a child's laughter, and a woman's love, and Chopin's music, and Turner's paintings, and Browning's poetry, and deeds like Oates's, when that very gallant gentleman went out into the blizzard to die -- is not holiness but a leering obscenity.

I find it equally hard to believe that God is stupid, that he has made a universe which has run away with him. I agree that when he gave men free will he opened the door to disharmony in his universe, and many things happen which are not his will and which, for the moment, he cannot help. But ultimately I believe he is omnipotent, and those who are tempted to think that he is stupid and defeated had better read one book by Sir James Jeans and ask themselves whether this universe was made by a fool. The alternative, then, is love, and I wish to put before the skeptic this picture.

I can remember, as though it were yesterday, standing in a little front parlor of a home in Leeds. The blinds were drawn down. The dim light shone through them. A broken-hearted mother and father were standing with me beside the coffin of their little child.

I can remember now how the light between the edge of the blind and the window frame drew the gold from his curly head as he lay before us with a half-smile upon his marble face. I believe that behind the shadows there was a pace, infinitely tender and kind, and a voice that would faire have said to us all: "Suffer it to be so now. It is part of the burden of the world's ignorance or folly or sin. You shall hold him again in your arms, and come at last to see that nothing precious is lost."

That is what the three of us believed as we stood there. Do you believe that behind the shadows there was the leering of a fiend, laughing behind his hand at our fond delusion? Or do you believe that behind the shadows was the gummy, senseless, slavering face of some immensely powerful imbecile? The only other alternative is that of love and power and invincible purpose. The second point in the evidence for immortality, then, is the nature and character of God.

The third piece of evidence is that of Jesus; not, I think, evidence of his resurrection, for it is not safe to argue that because something happens to a unique person it will happen to us; though that great fact does help. Someone, and Someone human, has broken the barrier between death and life. That is immensely strong supporting evidence, but of itself not sufficient to prove our survival.

But the evidence of Jesus which helps me most is his own certainty. He is so certain that he does not attempt to prove. He does what, in his case, is more convincing. He takes immortality for granted.

I will take only one instance where several could be taken. In the last dread hour a dying thief hangs on the cross next his own. A dying thief. Not one of the elect; not one supposed to have qualified for a reward hereafter. And this poor, smitten wretch cries out to Jesus, hardly knowing what his words mean, "Lord, remember me when thou comest into thy kingdom."

  • Now note the answer of Jesus carefully. "This day you shall be with me in the world of spirits." There is no argument, "If you are good and repent, you shall go to heaven." What is much more impressive for our present purpose is this. Jesus does not say, "I hope so." He says, "You shall be there."

Now, either Jesus was sure or he was not sure. If he were not sure, he would have said, "Well, I hope we shall meet again," or, "It is my faith that we shall pass on to another life:" Either, then, he knew or he was not honest. I challenge the skeptic with that.

And I imagine the skeptic turns now, and says, "But how did he know?" Forget for the moment all your theology about the person of Christ, and look at it for one moment like this: You and I are standing with Turner facing a picture. Turner is criticizing the picture. To you he says: "Yes, it is a very good picture indeed. There is just that one tint that is too strong, or there is just that one line that is not true."

And you turn to me and say, "How does he know?" I reply to you, "Know? Surely, Turner knows what is good in a picture. If not, no one knows. He is the master. This is his subject."

You and I are standing with Chopin listening while someone plays. When the music is finished Chopin says to us, "Very good, but the full beauty is not brought out when it is played so fast, and at one point he played a discord." And you turn to me and say, "How does he know?" My reply is the same: "Know when there is a discord--Chopin?"

We stand together with Shakespeare, who is criticizing a sonnet, and as he puts it down he says: "That is not a sonnet at all. This is wrong and that is wrong." You say to me, "How does he know?" and I reply, "If he doesn't know, nobody does." I have only to mention the name "Shakespeare" and you need no other evidence. The master is speaking on his own subject.

Forget, for the moment, all your theories about the person of Jesus. Is he a great religious genius or not? I do not ask you to take Shakespeare's opinions on sermons, but I do on sonnets. I do not ask you to agree with Turner if he speaks on politics, but I do on paintings. I do not demand that you should agree with Chopin on mushrooms, but I do on music.

And if you like to prove to me that Jesus Christ made mistakes in his science or regarding the authorship of a psalm, I shall not turn a hair. A person who lived in Galilee two thousand years ago and knew all modern science would have been a monstrosity, not a perfect man. But when he is talking about religion, do you think he had not got the evidence; do you think he had not contemplated all the possible adventures in the history of the soul? Had not that amazing mind contemplated all the mysteries of life and death? Did he know? If he does not know, nobody does.

A perfect man can know God and trust God in any age. But some of us have thought, and thought, and thought, and are forced to a further conclusion, that the eyes that on that dreadful day were turned in love and compassion toward the dying thief were the eyes of God, and that whenever the Master spoke about his own subject, which was religion, he revealed the eternal truth of God.

He could not tell us much. For we could not understand. We are fools and blind, and what bit of vision we have is clouded with sin. But he lays a cool hand on fevered spirit and tortured body and frenzied brain. His quiet eyes hold our agony and silence its outcry. He whispers that God is love and all is well, and there is in his voice, no false comfort, no shallow optimism, or easy lie. He himself has tasted death and qualified in the world's dread school of pain. He cannot tell us much. We could not bear it. But when he says that the final meaning of life is love, and a love which ultimately wins without the annihilation of one, without the loss of the free will of one, without the loss of the intellectual integrity of one, we find ourselves believing him, for truth was the very air his soul breathed. "Why," he says, "if it were not so, I would have told you."

  • So, my friend, be of good cheer! When the long day is over, you will walk in the scented dusk down the last valley; and not alone, for he, the Companion of all men, has pledged his word to be with you.

And at the end of that valley, all hushed and quiet, "By velvet darkness folded in," you will see, shining through the trees, the lights of home.

  • One evening the lamps will be lighted for you in the House of New Beginnings. And when you draw near to the house, you will hear music and dancing.

 



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