Word
Gems
What is a
man but the sum of his thoughts?
Personal Statement #7
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Love In The
AfterLife
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Summerland:
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The Story of
Elmere and Franklin
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November 8,
2008
We met Elmere at a church we were
attending while living in Toronto during the 1980s.
Elmere
was a feisty, but very good-hearted, 88 year-old
lady. The tone of her voice was weakening, had become quite high-pitched,
almost a screech.
Her hearing was mostly gone,
so we had to speak up for her. She complained about voices in
her apartment late at night, but we determined that this was only her
hearing aid malfunctioning.
Elmere loved to
be hospitable and would invite small groups of young people to her place for
snacks and fun - I thought this was unusually outgoing for one
of advanced age.
One time at her apartment, Anita noticed on a
shelf an old and faded framed photograph of a young soldier. Elmere began to explain that this handsome young man
had once been her fiance. They had promised each other that they
would marry
as
soon as he returned from "The Great War."
At that time, a kind of proverb circulated,
warning lovers, that to become engaged, before his being sent to the
front, was
a
veritable death sentence. Franklin never returned home to her.
Elmere remained single
for her lifetime.

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World War I soldiers, in a sea of mud, holding the
line in shell
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holes during the
three-month Battle of Passchendaele (1917).
Our hearts easily go out to Elmere. We
cannot pretend to understand the grief that only her heart would have
known - the years, the multiple decades, of lonely nights and dark rooms
filled with tears.
Elmere has passed on now, having yearned for
her lover for nearly 75 years. For Franklin, waiting in the Spirit
World, 75 years might have seemed like a short time - as time there
does not unfold in the same way as it does here; unfortunately, for our dear
Elmere, 75 years was 75 years...
Dear friends, I want you to think about this. Is there
another question of more compelling interest to so many in this life, here, in
this "vale of suffering"?
Everyone's situation is
different, but, in a sense, everyone's situation is the same, as no
one gets a free-pass when they come to this world; every sensitive soul
has a story of suffering to tell - and that story is
frequently about another person who was lost by one who loved him.
I hope that you have read my article, An Introduction To The
Scientific Evidence For The AfterLife .
It's best if you begin to familiarize yourself with
that information before reading more here; meaning, I'd like for you
to have a substantial basis for knowing that what I say here is
true - the way it really is.
It is my pleasure to
share with you my research of the past 12 years. I will
present to you a synopsis of a large body of information, a summary
of which will go a long way toward answering the question posed
above. Elsewhere on this website you will find quotes, excerpts
from AfterLife testimonies, that support what I will bring to
you below.
Elmere
and Franklin will meet in a place often referred to
as ...
Summerland
When I
attended law school I learned that one had
done enough research if the same data kept popping up over a variety of
sources. So it is with the well-substantiated information presented here about that
"port-of-entry" to the Spirit Realms, Summerland. These findings are well
attested to by a large number of AfterLife testimonies - and,
just as the untraveled among us can know what life in Moscow is
like from those who
have
been there, so, too, we can know about the general
life that awaits us over there from numerous reports sent from
that realm.
The Afterlife is no
monolithic place - it is, in fact, comprised of
regions,
or worlds, or levels, independent of each other. Numerous psychic
reports reveal that there are seven major divisions to the
Other Side.
The first two levels are places that you will
want to steer clear of - very unpleasant, but temporary, levels of existence inhabited by souls
who have pathological issues needing to be addressed and worked out before
they can move on to better planes. You will be happy to know
that there is no eternally-burning hell - this folklore from the Middle
Ages was designed as a propaganda piece to control and
manipulate the uneducated masses. We will speak more of this in
future articles.
But the third level of of the Spirit
Realm is Summerland
, the
place where good things begin to happen - and even this
provocative title will begin to tell you something about this
wonderful destination.
Summerland is the "first home" for the
"average good person" from our world. Lucky for most of
us, we don't have to be sainted like Mother Theresa
to live in Summerland.
I will briefly recap
here some things I have written on this subject in
other articles:
First of
all, let me say, you must forget about all
of the myths of “heaven.” So much of this, like the subject of
hell, is pure mythology, a propaganda designed by history’s
ecclesiastical demagogues as a device to control the fearful. You must let go of
images of floating on pink clouds, of wispy figures, of harps, and
pearly gates, and similar
tales.
AfterLife entities are
very adamant for you to know that Summerland is a most substantial
world - a solid world.
There, they walk on solid ground; they touch solid
tables and handle real flowers; and they have solid bodies, ones
that love and are filled with passion. They often say that their
world is the “real world” and ours is merely a world of forms and
shadows.
Summerland is very earth-like; in fact, it is
an idealized
earth!
Summerland
is a world of wide, foamy oceans, resort
white-sandy beaches, shimmering, placid lakes, and rushing, bubbling
streams; of vast forests, open prairies, and fortress mountains;
a world of universities, study, research, and visiting lecturers;
of running and laughing children, and gurgling babies; of beautiful,
spacious homes filled with all variety of fine things and artwork,
and small hide-away lake cottages; of farms, horses, cattle,
and crops; of glittering, bustling, clean cities with imposing
architecture; of sweet-natured animals of every sort, including
the ones from your earth-life, waiting to see you; a place of
all manner of recreational activity, of sports, all of the arts, libraries,
social events, galas of every kind, music, concerts – every good
thing that your aching heart desires – Summerland is purposefully
designed by your Advisors to be all of that for you; even, just
for you.
Summerland was designed by our Advisors
and Guides to address the questions and fears of hurting hearts upon
their arrival in Next Life. It is a place specifically designed to
"fill in the gaps," of every kind, left by the
earth experience; to help the emotionally injured of this life to move beyond
their sense of loss regarding so many
issues.
And
who would deny that the greatest loss in this life is
the loss of the love of an Only
Beloved!
And injured hearts will
not allow any beguilement, any artifice of mere words, or
platitudes, or any spiritual-talk, to distract them from that most
pressing cold reality, that giant hole in the deepest part of
themselves which has suffered loss!
All of this must be addressed in practical terms, of the
kind that grieving ones can and will accept; it must
be addressed lest suffering ones become trapped in their grief and
tears, unable to move on toward spiritual
perfection.
Natural
Law
As you learn about the Other Side, you will
find that it is governed by a principle that the "locals" call
natural law. This is a big subject but here's a small example of
it.
Upon
our arrival over there, we are not suddenly
"made perfect"; we are not subjected to an "instant make-over"
so that we will not recognize ourselves; we are not suddenly
jerked into a higher plane of thinking. And while we will spend
eternity slowly improving, and growing toward ever higher levels of
goodness and perfection, our initial mode of thinking will be
exactly the same as it was here in this
world.
This means that, if Franklin left this world
with Elmere in his heart, if he was in love with her then, he will
still be in love with her when he arrives on the Other Side; and the
same is true for
Elmere.
The most likely scenario for these two is
that they shall love each other, a long time,
as long as they
need and want to - this initial process
of love, for them, could take multiple decades, even a hundred years or
more - whatever they want, and decide on; and
they shall live their lives, possibly have children under their care, travel
the universe, experience all manner of adventure and pleasures - and
love each other with utmost passionate intensity throughout it
all...
The Worlds
of Love
There are sub-sections of Summerland
called "Spheres" or "Worlds" dedicated to various unfulfilled
interests. These worlds are devoted to every kind of
loss that people experience while on earth - but we can safely
assume that Elmere and Franklin will not be confused about what
they need and want - and they will want to make their way to a
particular place, "The Worlds of
Love"!
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N. Riley Heagerty, The
French Revelation: "The Spheres! No tongue can
describe them. There are thousands... millions... countless in
number... all rounded into complete worlds, and all the
habitations of those who cherish the special idea which rules the
sphere... There are spheres of every mental light, thought, and
knowledge; spheres of special grades of intellect and wisdom.
In all and each [person] is a special need of
happiness... There are spheres
of love, where tender natures
cling to one another until they are drawn
by higher, broader aspirations to broader planes of
thought
..."
The French Revelation features select testimonies from the OtherSide via
direct-voice medium Emily French - thousands of spirit-interviews
were recorded over a 20-year period. We are told that many souls
upon entering the next life are in need of rest and healing. And each of these hurting hearts harbors a private
definition and "special need of happiness," and it would appear that
there is a quite solid world waiting to address each person's unique
unfulfilled aspirations.
More than hedonism is at stake here. This
experience of personal fulfillment seems to be necessary before it
is possible for one, from a sense of greater inner wholeness, to
progress toward higher states of being. We know that
a most common form of suffering in our world is that of the
loss of love or unexpressed love. And we are informed by AfterLife
entities that there is a special world designed to address this
human tragedy; a world uniquely and particularly devoted to
recuperation for lovers! There is a happy ending for every "Splendor
In the Grass"
couple!
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Ringo, Octopus'
Garden
We would be warm, below the storm In our
little hideaway beneath the waves... We would sing and dance
around, because we know we can't be found... Oh, what joy, for
every girl and boy, Knowing they're happy and they're safe...
We would be so happy you and me, No
one there to tell us what to do, I'd like to be under the sea,
In an octopus' garden with you... |

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But notice the word "until." While lovers will
eventually find healing and devote time to the "broader aspirations"
of humanitarian service, nothing happens
until these hurting hearts have had their
therapeutic fill of clinging to one another, of loving one another!
Imagine a place arranged only to satisfy a
private and particular definition of happiness! Imagine what,
essentially, is a prolonged honeymoon! lasting for months, years,
decades - as long as you want or need it to last!
We presume that Elmere and Franklin will have
a lot of catching up to do for awhile - maybe a long while. Their
phone will be off the hook so don't bother calling them right now,
they'll call
you.
The testimonies suggest that they will have
missed out on nothing. I will discuss this in greater detail in
forthcoming
articles.
Bike
Riding in Summerland
Allow me to close with a
story.
I have several
friends in the psychic community, and I was recently speaking
to David. He's one of the most gifted mediums that
I know.
Psychics, you might
say, are a kind of "radio receiver," able to tune into the higher
waveband, higher vibrational energy-frequencies of the Spirit Realm. Whereas the "average" psychic is able to
access and receive only singular impressions from the Other Side - images,
scents, a word here or there - David, a much
more sensitive receiver, can actually hear his Guide speaking in
his ear!
David
told me of a reading he gave to a son who
desired to know about his father who had passed on. David was able
to receive information about this dad and was told that
he was very much enjoying riding a bicycle in the
New World.
This information seemed unremarkable to
David, but, in any case, he offered it to the son - who found
such message most comforting. "My dad had a
club foot, and, as a kid, he always wanted to ride a bike, but he
never could. So what you're telling me about dad makes all the sense
in the world to me!"
This man was riding a bike in
Summerland! For him, this boyhood loss was a most personal grief in
his heart that needed healing! and he will ride that bike as long as
he wants to, or needs to - until he's ready to ask the question,
"What's next?"
To each
hurting heart,
his own.
That's what Summerland
is about.
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December 28,
2008
Editor's Special
Note:
I finished this article almost two months
ago, but, just today, I felt this sense that more needs to be said;
that what I presented above might sound too fantastic to be
credible.
Therefore, allow me to restate, clarify, and
offer some additional thoughts for your consideration.
Regarding the scientific evidence for the
existence of Summerland ... I will just say that the volume of such
is overwhelming... Summerland exists, and we can be confident of
this, just as we accept the existence of Mars.
But, many still have questions... so I will
appeal to your reason and good judgment, as we consider some of
the testimonies from the Other Side once again.
Summerland is very earth-like... but this
alone makes many feel uncomfortable... because you thought "heaven"
was going to be different.
You will eventually be right in your
assessment. The higher levels of heaven, where the most advanced
soul-persons live, are utterly unlike
Summerland.
I have read so many reports of persons who
inhabit these higher realms, and they always say something like
this: "Summerland is a great place... but it is
nothing compared to the next realms... life here is so wonderful
that we have no words to describe it" - they all say this,
and it gets a little monotonous hearing how we cannot grasp what
they have.
But I will accept that. The point is this...
the higher levels of heaven are not earth-like... they are
not
like
Summerland.
In a sense, I see
Summerland as more of an extension of the earth life, rather than
truly part of the AfterLife. And maybe this is a more
helpful way of viewing Summerland.
AfterLife researcher, Michael Tymn,
reports:
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Sir Oliver Lodge, knighted for his
pioneering work in electricity, radio, and the spark plug,
pondered the situation in writing: "I know that its
inhabitants [of Summerland] say it is
extraordinarily like the earth, that they have flowers, and trees
and houses, and can get anything they want by merely wishing for
it, which seems rather strange, but I was not prepared to
think of it as a world of illusion wherein all such objects of
sense were illusory." In further discussing the matter with
Raymond [his son, killed in WWI] and Frederic W. H. Myers, his old
friend, who had died in 1901, and who also communicated through
Mrs. Leonard, Lodge concluded that it was a
temporary environment for spirits who have recently crossed over
and still making adjustments before going on to realms of higher
vibration, which become less and less illusory, and more and more
real, as a soul advances in the spirit world. "We are not transported to the full blaze of
reality all at once," Lodge surmised, pointing out
that a table that feels solid and substantial is really a
multitude of whirling electrons with great spaces between them and
that when we stand on the floor we are bombarded upwards and
supported by a great multitude of little blows delivered by the
atoms beneath our feet. As none of this is apparent to the
ordinary senses, it can be considered illusory, even though we
choose to interpret it in a way that appeals to our coarse-grained
sense organs.
Allow me to restate this in a different
way.
Summerland will be a
temporary residence for us
- even though we might be there longer than our time on
earth. It is not designed to be our final destination, nor is it
designed to be focused upon for its own sake. Again, let not your
heart be troubled by the word "temporary," as you can stay as long
as you want to.
Summerland is a place
where we will grow beyond our narrow, provincial
earth-attachments... and, sort of like deep-sea divers who
need to acclimate to surface pressures gradually, we will need to
acclimate ourselves to what lies beyond
Summerland.
I say "narrow" because there is a big
universe out there... other dimensions... things and places, life
forms, of which we have no present understanding... and we need
to expand our horizons a bit in order to negotiate these
new
vistas.
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Silver Birch : "The next stage of life to earth is a replica of
your world of matter.
Were it not so,
the shock for the many who are uninstructed and ignorant would
be more
than they could stand. And so it has
to be accomplished by very easy stages. The next
stage of life resembles your world. That is why so
many do not know that they have passed beyond
the
physical."
And we will do this by getting rid of our parochial earth-views and
earth-concepts ... and we'll do that by entering into them... fully... and
satisfying ourselves, convincing ourselves, that, in moving
on, we will not have missed anything important... been
there, done that... got the video, t-shirt, and commemorative
plate... what's next?
Summerland is the place where we can do all
of the things that we missed out on while here... and begin
to heal our grief and heartache due to lost opportunities. And from this sense of
peace and greater inner wholeness, we will be able to move on
to new frontiers.
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And, if you have no
lover now in this world, you will, if you so desire, very
likely meet someone in Summerland to share love with... I've
read many stories about this... and, together, you two will
explore the meaning of romantic love... in that paradise that is
Summerland!
Yes, I know... if I'm gonna put it that
way... well... you promise to be good from now on...
[smile]
Regarding Elmere and Franklin, I cannot, of course,
know whether they might still want to be together - but, we can
know that untold millions and millions will require this experience of
love.
I am thinking of something that Mortimor
Adler once said, as he quoted Theodore Reik, psychiatrist:
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"Love and sex often coincide, but
coincidence is not evidence of identity... There is no doubt among
psychoanalysts that there is sex without love, sex 'straight.'
[But psychoanalysts] vehemently deny that
there can be love without sex," emphasizing the relentless
need for True Love to bond, body and soul.
That's very interesting isn't it... what
these psychiatrists say... you cannot be truly
in love without bodies coming together...
Well... we know that
physical love does not always happen in our world,
even between those well-matched ones who love each other deeply...
But, the point is... such failed consummation
will
cause them profound
grief... such overwhelming sorrow, that... no, they won't die...
not right away... they'll only wish that they were dead...
These two have a very
real psychological
need to come together... and they will die every day in their failure
to do so... and, every one of those days spent in our world, will be
lived in mental anguish, distraction, and grief... in separation from
that Beloved.
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Martha Reeves, Heat
Wave:
It's tearing me
apart... Sometimes I stare in space, Tears all over my face, I can't
explain it, don't understand it, ... never felt like this
before, ... has me
amazed, Don't know what to
do...
- It's like a heat wave...
Burning in my
heart... |

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And when two, such as these, finally make
their way to Summerland, they will be in no
condition to think about lofty humanitarian service projects, philanthropic
higher development, or anything of that sort... so traumatized will
they be from their sufferings on earth.
And, as the psychiatrists tell us - but
we don't need psychiatrists to tell us this, do
we - these two will need to make love to each other...
for a long time... to find healing for their grieving
hearts...
And in Summerland they will be able to
make love -
because Summerland is very
earth-like - and designed to be such, for just these situations.
We still have solid bodies there... and lovers make love to each
other there.
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Diamond Rio,
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One More
Day
"... I simply wished for one more day
with you - one more day, one more time, one more
sunset, Baby, I'd be satisfied - but
then again, I know what it would do,Leave me
wishing still, for one more day with you, First thing I'd do
is pray for time to crawl... I'd hold you every second, Say a
million I love yous, That's what I'd do, with one
more day with you... Leave me wishing still, for one more day,
Leave me wishing still, for one more day..." |

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Editor's
note: "One more sunset,
Baby..." The grief of separation from a Dearly Beloved is
addressed squarely, unequivocally, in Summerland. Two willing
hearts will not need to "pray for time to
crawl," as they will enjoy as many days together as
they'll require; as many sunsets together as needed, to heal those
holes in their hearts. And, to augment that healing, they will make
love in Summerland. Psychic Sylvia Browne tells us that in
Summerland orgasms might last, not seconds, but hours! and with
greater intensity! ... yes, I know... you promise to be good
from now on... I think you already said
that... [smile]
And in Summerland, two lovers, if their grief
so requires, can, for a time, as long as they want to, live a
somewhat traditional existence... they won't have to go to work to
pay the mortgage, but... they can have that house in the country;
with fireplace, bookshelves, fine furniture, and artwork; with horses
and meadow nearby; whatever they like, whatever their aching hearts
require... and they can raise kids, too... and they can travel, and
explore every adventure, every recreation and passion, every
interesting activity concerning the arts... all of this and more...
together.
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Millions of
children enter the AfterLife each year, a result of natural causes
and abortion... and these children are raised by loving persons
who find themselves called to serve as their parents... you and
your lover can do this if you so desire... you can have little
children running through that fine home of yours...
Some of the AfterLife testimonies speak of
the great classical composers still working, still producing their
magic. From this, I think, we can safely extrapolate to know that
other entertainers, too, will still be bringing down the house.
I'll be there, ready to see Bobby Darin at the Copa...
better make that two tickets... and a bottle of red wine...
Everything that a
couple would normally like to have, or do, or experience, or share,
or thrill to, is all there on the Other Side, waiting to heal
hurting hearts; indeed, in more abundant quantities than
here.
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If you’ve ever looked at the moon, or the
stars at night and wished that you could marvel at them with that Only One; if you’ve ever wished to take
a walk; or ride a horse; or share a sunset or sunrise; or
enjoy a snowstorm; or that white-sand Kokomo beach; or cabin retreat; or revel in that early
April morning with the scent of spring so heavy in the sweet
air; or delight in each other's sparkling
eyes, with that warm touch of the hand, while enjoying a
glass of red wine; or share seduction to the sensuous voice of
Aretha Franklin's You Send Me - all with that
Special Person that you miss so much... friends, do not discard
such dreams... these are not dead-end roads... but 8-lane
super-highways leading somewhere... these will all enjoy
fulfillment, more than you can now know.

| Aretha
Franklin, You Send
Me
"Darling, you send me,
Darling, you send me, Darling, you send me, honest
you do, honest you do, honest you do, oh-h-h-h, you
thrill me, Darling, you thrill me, Baby, you thrill me...
yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah..." |
And in this wonderful experience, lovers will
heal themselves of their grief concerning missed opportunities...
and, over time, as the terrors of past separation
subside, in
this increasing state of mental well-being, they will one day be ready
to embark upon that life of service... but not right away... not
until they have made love to each other for as long as they
need to, or want to... and this honeymoon world might last for years or
decades, a
hundred years or more... as long as they want it, or need it, to
last...
The Real
World
Soul persons on the Other
Side always speak of their world as the "real" world, with ours as
the world of shadows.
Michael
Tymn, again:
- When Sir Oliver asked Raymond if he was saying that he lived
in a world of illusion, Raymond said that he [Raymond] was in an extension of the illusory world in which
his father was living. "We are in touch with a world of
reality because we are in the outer rim of the
world of illusion," he explained to his father. "We're more
sure of the world of reality than you are. Father, the spirit
universe is the world of reality. Spirit and mind both belong
to the world of reality."
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Raymond confirms, as I suggested above, that Summerland is an
extension of the earth; that neither is the "real" world, a
destination that still awaits us... one that lies beyond
Summerland!
I think I'm starting to understand what they mean with this talk
of "real"... for one thing, in our world, every good thing is so
temporary... things change, people die, stuff happens... but, in
Summerland, and especially beyond, there are no threats, no
invasions, no wars, no corruption, no generalissimos, no growing
old, no death, no loss... in Summerland, things come to an end only
when we want things to end, and are ready to move on to better
things.
And how wonderful to
do all of this with a soulmate lover!
As souls advance, and move to the higher levels of heaven -
a process which might take many tens of thousands of years - they
will not engage in physical love.
But this does not mean that soulmates will not continue to
enjoy each other - because we also know, as we move to those better
realms, that we lose nothing in terms of joy
and love as we advance... but only gain... because, on the higher levels, soul
entities have other ways of sharing love and passion. There's no need to
worry about this.
To grieving hearts, however, the thought of moving to a realm where there might not
be physical love with a Darling One can be very threatening... that's
ok... that just means that you're not ready to leave Summerland
yet... and nobody will move you out... until you, with your
cosmic lover, say, "hey, Baby, let's go
and check out what comes next!"
A general principle that I've distilled from
all of the AfterLife literature is this:
Some of you reading this are already
service-minded and might be fit for the higher realms... but you
also, likely, have heartaches from your earth-trip to be
addressed... this means that you and your lover will probably want
to spend some time in Summerland before advancing... a little
R&R on your own white-sand Kokomo beach somewhere
might not be too hard to take... do what you like... and
maybe the two of you might decide not
to stay too
long... that's up to you... your inner-selves will tell you when
it's time to move on.
But it's good to know that healing, wish
fulfillment, and therapeutic recovery is what Summerland is all
about.
Peace to you.
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