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Personal Statement #31

Finding Healing From Religious Abuse:
The Nature of Authentic Spiritual Authority
 
What I Learned From Father John Kuhn
  
 


 

 

September 1, 2009

 

 

The chronicles of Carolyn continued...

 

 

My 93 year-old cousin (P.S. #30) tells this story of our relative, Father John Kuhn.

 

The Christmas Gift... that kept on giving

Father John was once chatting with an acquaintance in his parish. The topic of recent Christmas gifts came up. And the casual question was asked,

"Well, Father, what did you get for Christmas this year?"

"Oh, a few things, I don't remember... I think it was $300."

"And what about you, what did you get for Christmas?"

"Oh, well... not too much... just $30."

Father John didn't say anything for a moment. But then, in a voice almost as if to whisper, he addresses his friend:

"Look, now don't say anything to anyone about this, but," as he fumbles in his pocket and then presses a small amount of money into the man's hand, "I want you to have this as your gift from me!"

Several years go by.

The man dies. His will is read.

The long-ago Christmas-gift recipient leaves Father John $125,000!!

Father John brushes this off. "What do I need money for?" he says, and instructs that the entire amount be given to the local parish elementary school.

A true story.

 

I love this photo so much! Look at the good time these people are having. The lady beside Uncle John can't laugh hard enough! and I suddenly realize that a laughing woman is a beautiful woman. In so many of Father John's photos he stands amidst near-riotous laughter. This is the way I remember him. Meeting everyone. Making everyone feel good. Authentic spiritual authority is not a complicated concept... in large measure, it simply means becoming a True Human Being... and encouraging others to do the same... and to join in the fun. [Uncle John's mother, my Great Aunt Caroline Kuhn, Ma's (P.S. #18) sister, is on the right. All photos here graciously supplied by Betty Sperle (P.S. #27)] ... just now I recall Norma's sense about Uncle John, that he is "very human." How wonderfully expressed! Few descriptives of Uncle John could be more appropriate!

 

 

The three stages of human consciousness

Psychologist Carl Jung, in his Modern Man In Search Of A Soul, offers insight regarding the three stages of human consciousness.

I shall refer to this in greater detail in future writings; but, for the moment, I would like to focus on what happens to an older person who cannot let go of the past.

"As formerly the neurotic could not escape from childhood, so now he cannot part with his youth. He shrinks from the grey thoughts of approaching age ... is always straining to look behind him. Just as the childish person shrinks back from the unknown in the world and in human existence, so the grown man shrinks back from the second half of life."

We have often seen this, haven't we... the older person, neurotically attempting to reclaim his teen years... the corvette; the open shirt; the dyed hair or toupee; the gold chain around the neck; the trophy-girlfriend, thirty years his junior...

 

 

Driving with the rearview mirror

But there is a much more extreme version of this living anachronism.

"Aging people should know that ... an inexorable inner process forces the contraction of life. For the young person it is almost ... a danger to be too much occupied with himself; but for the aging person it is his duty and a necessity to give serious attention to himself ... [he must seek for] the illumination of the self [rather than persisting as the] eternal adolescent... in the delusion that the second half of life must be governed by the principles of the first."

I am thinking of certain aged politicians. Most of them are very wealthy. They have no material concerns. And, at a time of life when, as Jung put it, they would be wise to give "serious attention" to their mortal existence, and its soon-coming conclusion, they act as if they will rule over us forever. In their mad delusions, they present themselves, with false bravado, as if there were no consequence to endemic prevarication; as if life were a grand game of falsehood ... not merely of the speaking sort, but of living a lie... of acting and posturing as if they are benefactors, while they, in fact, view their office as a private playground of self-interest...

  • Fyodor Dostoyevsky, The Brothers Karamazov: "A man who lies to himself, and believes his own lies, becomes unable to recognize truth, either in himself or in anyone else, and he ends up losing respect for himself and for others. When he has no respect for anyone, he can no longer love, and in him, he yields to his impulses, indulges in the lowest form of pleasure, and behaves, in the end, like an animal in satisfying his vices."

Dostoyevsky was more correct than he knew. We shall soon learn, from very famous Teachers, that such lying politicians are to be viewed as... wolves.

 

 

Mourning in America

This issue of constant lying... of virtually never saying anything that conforms to reality... we need to think about this... about the words of Dostoyevsky.

Today is August 26, 2009. A famous senator has died today. We all know who he is. And our state-run media is now officially informing all that we must duly "mourn" his passing.

"Mourning" is now the catchword everywhere in the media... and we are told that he was "the greatest" of senators... but they dare not say at what.

 

  • Charles Van Doren, speaking at a memorial service for Mortimer Adler, 2001: "... I remember the first seminar we led together, nearly forty years ago. The text was Plato's dialogue, The Sophist. I had read it twice or three times and struggled to get the point. It could not be what it seemed to be. But Mortimer helped us all to understand it: The true sophist, Plato is saying, cannot be trapped - if he is willing to say anything whatsoever to win the argument. If he wants to win at all costs and does not care what is true, and if he is adept at fending off the truth when it is presented, the sophist will triumph, and you will fail ..."

 

I had an early-morning dental appointment today. The young-girl hygienist greeted me and asked how I was doing today.

I made some untoward reference to the news of day.

I was surprised at her reaction. She expressed concern for the present direction of the country; and fear of the future: "It makes me think that maybe I should not have children because I don't want to bring them into a world like this."

In my life, I have never seen the ordinary people of America so agitated, and angry, as they are today. The character of the American people has traditionally not been that of fear. We, with our heritage of personal freedoms, have, for 200 years, expected the future to be better for our children than our own experience.

But there is palpable fear in America now.

I spoke to my car mechanic a couple of days ago. He is a friend, and we have chatted about many things over the years. But what is on his mind today? He laughs ... nervously laughs... and says that moving to Texas has been on his mind... you know, just like my Grandparents who escaped totalitarian Europe, he is thinking of an escape to freedom!

What has happened to America?

Also, today I spoke with my insurance agent. I have known him for some years. I am at his fine home, and we are on his back deck, a most pleasant setting. Yet, his mind is far away, and he begins to express his dire fears about the future of America, as he thinks about his grandchildren.

And I suspect that the majority of Americans today know that something is terribly wrong in our country... in a way that we, in our entire history, even including the Civil War and World War II, have not seen before!

 

  • Baron Lane: "Loss of freedom seldom happens overnight. Oppression doesn't stand on the doorstep with toothbrush mustache and swastika armband - it creeps up insidiously ... step by step, and all of a sudden the unfortunate citizen realizes that it is gone."

 

  • David Hume: "It is seldom that liberty of any kind is lost all at once. Slavery has so frightful an aspect to men accustomed to freedom that it must steal in upon them by degrees and must disguise itself in a thousand shapes in order to be received."

 

 

A U.S. Marine speaks out

August 18, 2009. Clark County Washington. Representative Brian Baird (D-WA) at a town hall meeting is confronted by a U.S. Marine, David Hedrick ...

HEDRICK:  I'm a Marine Corps vet.  And, like you, I did swear an oath to defend my Constitution against all enemies, foreign and domestic.

AUDIENCE: (cheers and applause) 

HEDRICK:  Now, I heard you say tonight about educating our children, indoctrinating our children, whatever you want to call it.
 
BAIRD:  I didn't say "indoctrinating."
 
AUDIENCE: (laughter) 
 
HEDRICK:  Stay away from my kids. 
 
AUDIENCE: (cheers and applause) 
 
HEDRICK:  I also heard you say that you're going to "let us" keep our health insurance. Oh, thank you.  It's not your right to decide whether or not I keep my current plan or not. That's my decision. 
 
AUDIENCE: (cheers and applause) 
 
HEDRICK:  I've heard recently in the media you and some other people on the national political stage call us "brownshirts" because we oppose it.
 
BAIRD:  No, I did not.  No, I did not.  What I said was --
 
AUDIENCE: (grumbling)
 
BAIRD: And, and I've apologized for it.
 
HEDRICK:  Okay, well, thanks. Thanks for apologizing, but I won't speak to you, then. I'll speak to others.  But I'll remind you, a little history lesson, the Nazis were the National SOCIALIST Party. 
 
AUDIENCE: Yeah! (applause)
 
HEDRICK: They were leftists. They were. They took over the finance. They took over the car industry. They took over health care in that country. 
 
AUDIENCE: (cheers and applause) 
 
HEDRICK:  If Nancy Pelosi wants to find a swastika, maybe the first place she should look is the sleeve of her own arm. 
 
AUDIENCE: Yeah! (cheers)
 
HEDRICK:  Now, what I want to know is, you've done a lot of things that violate your constitutional oath, as you know.  What I want to know is, as a Marine, as a disabled veteran that served this country, I've kept my oath. Do you ever intend to keep yours? 
  • Alexis de Tocqueville: "Democracy extends the sphere of individual freedom; socialism restricts it. Democracy attaches all possible value to each man; socialism makes each man a mere agent, a mere number. Democracy and socialism have nothing in common but one word: equality. But, notice the difference. While democracy seeks equality in liberty, socialism seeks equality in restraint and servitude."

 

Yet, in the midst of all of this national turmoil and protest, our state-run media tells us that we must "mourn" the passing of a certain senator... a man who has done little, for 50 years, but to aggrandize his own name, at public expense, while calling himself a benefactor...

 

  • Editor's note: History's demagogues are so predictable. They love to posture as lovers of mankind, as cover, for their true agenda. The ancient classic case might be this: "Then saith ... Judas Iscariot ... which should betray him, Why was not this ointment sold for three hundred pence, and given to the poor?This he said, not that he cared for the poor; but because he was a thief." John 12: 4-6

 

The compassion... the biting of the lower lip... the feeling of the pain of the poor...

The only people who would "mourn" such a person are those who expected to profit by his actions; and, even now, by his passing: September 1, 2009: The Majority Leader speaks: The Senator's death is "going to help us."

 

 

The title of this article

I, too, like Mr. Hedrick, am just an ordinary U.S. citizen, trying to do my best, living in this difficult world. And I, too, am concerned about what is happening on the national scene.

 

Editor's note: My... I had no idea that "public service" could be so orgasmically satisfying. The cat that finally caught the canary was never as pleased as this. These "public servants" appear to have died and gone to the bliss of Congress. I submit to you that when "public servants," purportedly in the course of executing the people's business, are thus ecstatically enthused... you seriously need to be wary. Just today, one of these pictured here, in this very photo, one who has done everything possible to expand taxation, reduce liberties, and increase control over our lives, we are informed, has been hiding vast amounts of personal assets and income, "failed to report millions" ... it seems that the smiles are a bit muted today after the expose on Drudge.

 

The title of this article would lead you to believe that I will speak of religious abuse... and I will get to that.

But here's what I've found... maybe you already know this and are ahead of me, but it took me decades to understand this...

 

  • The spirit of corrupt governmental politicians is the same spirit to be found in corrupt ecclesiastical politicians!

 

All corrupt politicians - in the government, the church, corporations - operate under the same game plan, and are motivated by the same egoic forces.

 

  • Abigail Adams, 1775: "I am more and more convinced that Man is a dangerous creature, and that power whether vested in many, or a few, is ever grasping, and like the grave cries give, give. The great fish swallow up the small, and he who is most strenuous for the Rights of the people, when vested with power, is as eager after the prerogatives of Government. You tell me of degrees of perfection to which Humane Nature is capable of arriving, and I believe it, but at the same time lament that our admiration should arise from the scarcity of the instances." Editor's note: I'm in love. I am in awe of the wisdom of Abigail Adams. John's greatest claim to fame was that he was smart enough to have married her. Today, if you quote the Founding Mothers or Fathers, or echo their sentiments, the House Majority Leader will call you a Nazi. Dear Great Leader will call you a racist, and that it's time to censor the Internet, for your own safety, of course. Big Sister will put you on her homeland security list of suspects. First Lieutenant Commissars, at their townhall meetings, carefully prestacked with paid union-stooges, will, before answering your questions, demand to see an ID (none required for voting, of course, that would be unfair). The state-run media will call your tea-party protests "unamerican" and "orchestrated"... These Totalitarians, as once observed by Churchill, install themselves "on their pedestals, surrounded by the [might of the State].Yet in their hearts there is unspoken - unspeakable! - fear. They are afraid of words and thoughts! Words spoken abroad, thoughts stirring at home, all the more powerful because they are forbidden. These terrify them. A little mouse - a little tiny mouse! - of thought appears in the room, and even the mightiest potentates are thrown into panic."

 

Keep all of this in mind as we discuss the religious sphere of life.

 

 

Carolyn's story:
The Kuhn in you & the empty black shirt

Carolyn told me a funny story... but before I give it to you, I need to tell you about a phrase she used... "the Kuhn in you" ... We were having breakfast together, and I told her something of myself, I forget what. She laughed and said, "That's just the Kuhn in you coming out!"

This made me laugh. Well, private jokes are not funny to others, so allow me to explain. This photo will help:

 

 

You remember my Grandmother, "Ma," Elizabeth Kuhn Marquart (P.S. #18). I have stated that ND itself is not legendary... but some of its people are. Look at this pioneer woman. This Quintessential Survivor! The set of her jaw is all that you need to know about her [smile] ... and when Carolyn uses the phrase, "That's just the Kuhn in you!" now you know what it means!

Well, as Carolyn tells the story, there was a local parish priest who had not, shall we say, been baptized into the secret knowledge of what it means to be a Kuhn! This point, sadly, for him, had been omitted from his theological curriculum.

One of my Kuhn cousins had married a fellow who was not a Catholic. This sin, however, was of the forgivable sort, and he had been thinking about converting, but hadn't made up his mind.

One day, my not-timid Kuhn cousin found herself fed-up with his procrastination... well, I should think so... Her fit of pique was precipitated by a recent theological discussion about baptism. She had been reminded of a certain technicality in the divine law, a loophole, which she judged to be an outrage. It is said, by those who presume to know God's very thoughts, that if one is baptized as an adult, all previous sins are magically wiped away... sort of like winning the confessional lottery... and, you know, if you play your cards just right, you could have a little fun for awhile, if you know what I mean, and position yourself to strategically request baptism, just moments before you die! It is a dangerous game, to be sure, but the perks are tantalizing, you have to admit.

Well, this just made her day as she contemplated such Cosmic Unfairness. So, she says to her hapless husband...

"Don't you try that **** with me! If you want to turn Catholic, you turn Catholic now, like the rest of us."

Ok, alright, he agrees already. He had no choice, of course, with "the Kuhn in her" coming out!

So he goes to visit the local priest.

 

  • Editor's note: The priest in question was the same individual before whose presence Dad hauled me when I was 18! Sadly, my own "inner Kuhn" was still quite inchoate, severely unformed... however, you will have noticed by now, in my Personal Statements, that "the Kuhn in me" is doing much better, thank you. But, our friend the politician-priest, while having won a minor skirmish over me that long-ago day, would discover that his victory over the young-pup Kuhn was merely a false reading, quite pyrrhic, false confidence, pride before a fall... as he would soon come up against a far wiser, weathered, and battle-ready Kuhn! [smile]

 

And, as they discuss his upcoming baptism and confirmation, the priest informs him that he will need a godfather/sponsor, someone of that sort.

The husbands thinks for a minute and decides that he would like his best friend - let's call him Bill - to be his sponsor.

Later, he reports to his wife about the important meeting. But he has some bad news...

"The priest said I can't have Bill as my sponsor!"

"Well," that Kuhn-tone revving up now, "WHY NOT?"

"He said that Bill isn't a good-enough Catholic!"

"HE SAID WHAT!! WELL, WE'LL JUST SEE ABOUT THAT!!"

So, she immediately marches over to the parish rectory... for a little chat...

"I hear that Bill can't be my husband's sponsor!"

"Yes, I told him that. And I told him why! It's against Catholic law."

"WELL, LET ME TELL YOU WHAT I'M GONNA DO! YOU SEE THAT CURB OUT THERE? I KNOW THAT THE BISHOP IS VISITING TODAY. AND I'M GONNA BE SITTING ON THAT CURB WHEN HE ARRIVES. AND I'M GONNA TELL HIM A FEW THINGS ABOUT YOU, AND HOW WE ALL FEEL ABOUT WHAT YOU'RE DOING HERE!"

This priest-politician, like the boy named Sue, after this tender heart-to-heart talk, suddenly, came away with a different point of view: "I don't know why I couldn't see it before, but, actually, Bill would be an excellent choice as sponsor..."

He folded like a tent at sun up.

  • Editor's note: My cousin's argument, an attempt to mar the reputation of a vulnerable underling in the eyes of an unforgiving superior, in principle, was the same one employed by the Scribes and Pharisees against Pilate: "If you let this man go, you are not Caesar's friend ... We have no king but Caesar." Pilate folded, too.

 

 

What were they thinking?

Carolyn's story makes me laugh so much.

But, these self-serving politicians ruling over us are no joke, and are a great curse in our lives. They are part of the Unholy Duo of The Wild Animal and The Lying Teacher (P.S. #21). And their self-dealing has now reached such gigantic proportions, with so many hands, so deeply, into the public coffers, that America itself, our very survival as a country, is in jeopardy!

And I ask myself, what are they thinking? Have they no concept that one day there will be a reckoning of all of their lies?

One of the most poignant examples here is that of the just-deceased senator, who, in recent weeks, got up off his literal deathbed, in order to cast a vote that would further his party's, but primarily, his personal, interest... on his deathbed, yet! ... a vote for something that America does not want and is rising up in near-revolution to smash! But now, as per the instruction of the state-run media, we are to "mourn" for him!

 

 

The great undead

I am reminded of a long-ago study of mine, a verse from the Old Testament, one often misunderstood...

 

  • "For the living know that they will die, but the dead know nothing."

 

Biblical literalists (P.S. #22) mindlessly cite this verse as evidence that the dead are asleep in their graves... such interpretation is entirely errant ...  see my ancient article on the exegesis of this verse.

Briefly, the meaning of this Old Testament verse is this:

 

  • The "living," those who are spiritually alive to God, know that, and act as if, this life is only temporary and that there is ultimate accountability; that is, "the living" build their lives around the principle that there is, not just an AfterLife, but that one's actions and thoughts will create, for oneself, inevitable and far-reaching consequences.

 

  • The "dead," on the other hand - those who live this mortal life as if God does not exist, as if there were no tomorrow, no AfterLife, no accountability for thoughts and actions - are, in their spiritual stupor and mad delusion, unconscious of Higher Reality. "The dead know nothing"; that is, they are blinded, and do not acknowledge the presence of God in the world... and their soon-approaching final accountability to Divine and Natural Law!

 

Why would someone act that way? Why would a very rich man get off his deathbed! - a time when, as Carl Jung said, it would be best to think about one's own cosmic life - why would he cast a partisan vote for something that any reasonable and honest person knows is patent rubbish? Why would he spend his remaining, halting breath on more prevarication?

 

  • Dr. Leslie Weatherhead: "The worst penalty of sin is that man [finds] his spiritual senses dulled, his spiritual desires lessened. Such separation involves progressive deterioration of character, which, if unstayed, may indeed involve such a disintegration of personality that the latter ceases to be recognizable... [the apostle Paul] uses the word dead ... to describe [this darkened soul] ...

It's the Ego, of course... that self-centered and neurotic part of the human psyche. I could explain this in terms offered by Eckhart Tolle; but, for a change of scenery, let's hear what Carl Jung has to say about this.

 

 

Carl Jung and the stages of human consciousness

Little children have undeveloped self-images. The "ego [for little children] is an object in consciousness..."

This is an amazing insight by Jung. He is saying that very young children see themselves as just one more object in their world! They are detached from self almost as much, for example, as the chair in the living room, or the family cat!

"... for this reason the child speaks of itself, at first, objectively, in the third person."

This is why little Johnny might say, "Johnny wants to go out to play!"

But the sense of self grows continually, until the final break at puberty. Before this time, the child, more or less, identifies with parents. But at sexual maturity, the Ego, now infused with a new energy supplied by sexual enlivenment, comes into its own, and, for the healthy child, becomes self-aware and independent!

This is normal and a good thing. It's part of growing up, part of cutting the apron strings, and becoming an autonomous person.

But this is not the final stage of development in consciousness.

 

  • Unfortunately, the vast majority of people get stuck at this level. They never grow beyond this low-level egoic thought form of... I, me, my, and mine!  

 

The Ego is virtually an animal instinct... it seeks to survive... to perpetuate itself... and will strive for advantage, over any thing, or any body, in its way.

And, if you, primarily, live life on the level of Ego... but dressed up as a corrupt Washington politician... even on one's deathbed you will do what all Egos do in such situations... you will continue to promote yourself, and you will build that monument to yourself, an attempt at bureaucratic glory and immortality, of such grandeur that no Pharaoh could approach ... and you will attempt to influence the choice of your successor, lest anyone dismantle that which you spent a lifetime building... an edifice to yourself as The Good Person that all might forever worship you... and you will seek to be remembered as the one who compassionately cried, Why was not this ointment sold for three hundred pence, and given to the poor? And this Grand Edifice of Legacy, financed by the public coffer - but, with your name on it - will ask history to remember how generous you were... with other people's money.

That's what Egos do... it's their job... and Egos cannot be dissuaded from such activity... even on their deathbeds... because it's all about surviving and perpetuating... all about satisfying the Ego's chattering in the head... which never stops crying... you're not safe, you don't have enough, they don't know how important you are... which is to say ... I am not enough.

 

Carolyn's story...
Father John and the local priest

There is one more story about our friend, the local priest-politician.

As I visit with the older ones in my hometown who knew Father John, I find that so many have cherished photos of him. That in itself is remarkable. But there are some who have entire photo albums devoted just to his memory!

Isn't it amazing! I have spoken of certain politicians who, on their deathbeds, continued their prevaricating ways, thinking that deception would create that immortal "legacy" that they so neurotically craved. But in Father John we see the true realization of such ideal. Without lifting a finger to promote his own memory, He will be forever honored by so many who loved him!

Father John was visiting his hometown one day. The church was crowded with those who wanted to greet him, laugh with him, and shake his hand. And there he was, his natural self, his genuine affection for his people, flowing like a river (P.S. #23), having a good time with everyone he met.

 

This fine lady is beaming... in his presence. Everyone beams in his presence... well... there was one guy who didn't. I recently received a psychic message, something to the effect, that laughter is the intelligence of the universe; that we are never so human as when we are laughing. I think we need little convincing of that as we witness the infectious positive spirit of Father John in action.

 

 

The local priest-politician, witnessing all of this fervent outpouring of affection toward Father John, could stand it no longer and makes his was through the packed crowd to where Father John was shaking hands. He has an urgent message to deliver to Father John, one that cannot wait a moment longer...

 

  • "What do you think you're doing here!!?? Are you running for office or something?"

 

What this little shriveled heart didn't understand is that Father John didn't need to run for anything... the people would just write his name on the ballot!

This remark of the local priest-chieftain is so revealing regarding his dark machinations...  He saw everything in terms of politics; everything as means to power and control over the masses. Politics is where he lived. And how threatened he was to see his power, the little that he had, diluted by the crowd's enthusiastic adoration for this good man.

 

  • Editor's note: I am reminded just now of one more scripture, another one starring our friends, the Priests and the Pharisees: "What are we going to do? ... If we let him alone, all the people will rally to him."

 

Carolyn remembers this day. And she was left with the distinct feeling that the local priest felt offended by Father John's proactive reaching out to people... because this petty chieftain expected that others should approach him, come up to him, bow to him, honor him... and he considered it beneath his dignity to mingle with the masses... the great unwashed...

  • Editor's note: Many of us, anyone over the age of 5, have seen this kind of arrogance, many times. I once attended a certain church - one of my youthful indiscretions, of which there were many - in which visiting ecclesiastical higher officials would ostentatiously pull up in their limousines; would find lodging, not in a $50 room at the Red Roof Inn, but in a $400 room, the best the city had to offer... hey, just like Jesus did it... and, not only $400 rooms, but, as the reports later came to light, with their call-girls in attendance... hey, your tithe-dollars at work... And these tin-star demagogues, in their loud-voiced sermons to the sheep, would justify their spendthrift ways, and high living, with sophist-phrases such as, "God loves quality," and we represent God; and "David became rich by building the temple" ... well... you know what the worst part of all this is? It's that I put up with it, for such a long time.

 

 

What is the purpose of spiritual authority?
What is religious abuse?

There is a book that I read a long time ago, one that began to open my eyes. Allow me to give you the high points.

 

Editor's note: As we look back over our lives, we see many people who've helped us along our way. I am indebted to these authors, St. Paul, MN pastors, Johnson and Van Vonderen.

 

They have you coming and going...

These agents of the The Lying Teacher have thought this through.

First they demoralize you, send you on a perpetual guilt-trip, by telling you that you're no good, filthy, utterly defective, conceived in original sin; that God could never love you enough, poor schmuck that you are in your intrinsic unworthiness.

But, they say, all might yet be well if you will simply allow God's Elite, God's Chosen Representatives, God's Spokesmen, to rule over you. They will prepare for you that certain yellow-brick road to heaven... for the usual and customary fee, of course.

But they're not done with you yet.

If you were to suggest that it might be wise for you to get a second opinion on such matters as weighty as that of the destiny of your own soul, you would begin to see their true colors.

"That would be disloyal to God's Government and Holy Mother Church!"

"You must read only church-approved literature!"

"To question our decisions is to question God himself! Satan caused the woman to be deceived in The Garden, and we must watch over your souls!"

 

Spiritual abuse is an old story

There are many references in both the Old and New Testaments to this form of mind control.

Jeremiah 5: 30-31: "An appalling and horrible thing has happened in the land. The prophets prophesy falsely and the priests rule on their own authority."

Notice that the national calamity referred to originates from a spiritual center of power... a power-center that has been corrupted.

Jeremiah 6: 13: "For from the least of them to the greatest, every one is greedy for gain, and from the prophet, even to the priest, everyone deals falsely."

 

  • Editor's note: I am laughing out loud as I remember a certain little incident when I was around 12 or 13. I was serving as altar boy in the old country church in Burnstad. One of my relatives was getting married. It was customary in those days, at the end of a marriage service, for the altar boys to stand at the exit and to receive small amounts of money, nickels and dimes, from the attendees, as token gift to the young boys for their efforts. A charming custom. I was very excited to have collected about ten bucks in change! Later, I was dismayed and shocked to learn that the priest saw it as his imperial duty to put a stop to such extravagance... he wanted my ten bucks... I couldn't believe it! Lucky for me, "the Kuhn" in one of my relatives came to my rescue. She quashed his designs on my comic-book money and suggested to him that he might, upon short notice, today, in fact, visit a certain unpleasant otherworldly dimension... ha, ha, ha!

 

Jesus, himself, at times, might have made quite a good Kuhn. He blasted the pompous religious establishment of his day with the endearing phrase, "You're a bunch of snakes in the grass"; or if you prefer the archaic language, "You serpents, you brood of vipers! how shall you escape the sentence of hell." (Matt. 23:33)

And, in a comment, hardly less kinder and gentler, Jesus excoriates: "Beware of false prophets, who come to you in sheep's clothing, but inwardly are ravenous wolves!" (Matt. 7:15)

  • Editor's note: This wearing of the white hat by the villain, you will recall, is also mentioned in the context of The Wild Animal and The Lying Teacher (P.S. 21)

Part of Jesus' mission was to expose the entrenched and abusive religious system of his day, which lorded it over the people, but called themselves compassionate, lovers of the poor, servants of mankind... they really need to get a new scriptwriter, don't you think.

 

 

Authentic spiritual authority

One of the gripes of the Pharisees against Jesus ran something like this:

"Who do you think you are? You're nothing but a hayseed from Galilee. You're not even ordained! what seminary did you attend? and here you come waltzing in and think that you can tell us what to do... we, who stand in the direct line of succession of Moses. That alone should tell you how important we are!"

But, compare Matthew 7: 28-29, which says, "when Jesus had finished, the multitudes were amazed at His teaching; for he was teaching them as one having authority, and not as the Scribes."

In these two verses we see two different kinds of authority.

 

"Because I'm the Pastor, that's why!"

Only those who have no real authority talk this way. They must rely on making a good show, and power-posturing, trying to convince you how important they are... that's all they have. And when you finally wake up, the game is up, for them.

Jesus ripped the false spiritual authority of his day:

"Jesus spoke to the multitudes... saying, The Scribes and Pharisees have seated themselves in the chair of Moses." (Matt. 23:1)

The "chair of Moses" is a metaphorical reference to a "seat of authority." For example, the "chair" of a university academic department speaks of the authority, or the head, of that department.

Notice what Jesus is condemning. There are those who take authority to themselves. They claim to be sent by God, but it is all an act! They're role-playing, grandstanding, power-posturing. They "seat themselves" in a position of authority over God's people.

They have no real or authentic authority as Jesus had. Lacking this, they appeal to an external source... "We are in the direct line of the authority of Moses!" In other words, "You have to obey us... because we're in charge... and an expert from afar made it so." Got it?

Jesus was the real deal. People sensed that his words were a reflection of his Inner Person. His authority found basis in his own Personal Spirituality... the Person that he was, on the inside! The Scribes and Pharisees were not that way, did not teach that way. They constantly sought support for their message from an external source... this or that Great Teacher of the past... this or that ancient verse. But Jesus didn't primarily talk that way. He would say things like, "You have heard, in times past, such-and-such... but, I say to you..." ... and this amazed the people!

 

 

All great spiritual teachers are this way...

They all operate from their own personal connection to the Divine. They all speak from their own personal experience of spirituality. All of them... Jesus, Buddha, Ghandi, Mother Theresa, Henri Nouwen, Dietrich Bonhoeffer, the Dalai Lama, Leslie Weatherhead, Viktor Frankl, the Apostle Paul, Eckhart Tolle, John Paul II, C.S. Lewis, Carl Jung, Father John Kuhn... many others... there are good people, spiritual people, in every group, every church, every organization, even in corrupt organizations... there are good people in Washington, outnumbered as they are... and these spiritual ones, as Jesus said, are the good grain among many weeds; that tiny amount of sprinkled salt upon a tasteless and insipid world.

 

  • By the way... when you grow to become authentically spiritual, you will, automatically, on some level, become a teacher, if only by your presence... you will not be able to hide what you are... and the world will notice... they will know that you are different, five seconds after they meet you!

 

Spiritual individuals exude authentic spiritual authority. Some of these have held ostensible offices of power in various churches or movements... but, that's not why they are revered and remembered... that's not why some people have whole photo albums worshipping their memory.

Their spiritual authority, which "amazes" people, is centered in the words that they speak; the vision that they share; the freedom that they offer; the love that they exude; the truth that they live; the hope that they inspire... their authority rests not in any uniform, collar, or cloak, which a few of them might wear; not in any membership in a "one, true, holy" organization; not in any adherence to the "right book," the "right Great Leader," or the "right set of beliefs."

Authenic spiritual authority flows naturally, for all to see... like a river... effortlessly flowing... no huffing-and-puffing and trying very hard... and, as Jesus said, their lives become an expression of the unforced rhythms of grace.

And merely being in their presence, even without their words, becomes healing to one's spirit.

 

 

More blessed to give than to receive? ... so how 'cum certain ones are always on the receiving end?

I once had a good friend, an older Black man, who enjoyed telling a joke about his father, who had once been a share-cropper: "Dad did most of the croppin' and the owner did most of the sharin'."

That's funny. Except when such unfair imbalance happens to you.

There is a verse in the book of Acts. It is famous. You have heard it quoted all of your life. But you have probably never understood, or heard explanation, regarding the true contextual meaning...

 

  • Acts 20: 35. The apostle Paul quotes "Jesus [who] said, It is more blessed to give than to receive."

 

Well, that sounds very nice. Something the kids should memorize, might do 'em good.

The words "more blessed to give than to receive," appear, on the surface, to be a pleasant platitude on the lips of Paul, as he says good-bye to the Ephesian elders... almost like the modern throw-away phrase, "Have a nice day!"

Such sentiment describes neither the tenor nor the message of Paul on that somber day. A careful reading of the entire passage reveals an utterly different meaning... you might say, Paul's "inner Kuhn" came out that day!

First of all, have a look at a fuller context of this famous biblical verse.

 

Acts 20: 17-38

17 From Miletus he sent to Ephesus and called for the elders of the church.

18 And when they had come to him, he said to them: "You know, from the first day that I came to Asia, in what manner I always lived among you,

19 serving the Lord with all humility, with many tears and trials which happened to me by the plotting of the Jews;

20 how I kept back nothing that was helpful, but proclaimed it to you, and taught you publicly and from house to house,

21 testifying to Jews, and also to Greeks, repentance toward God and faith toward our Lord Jesus Christ.

22 And see, now I go bound in the spirit to Jerusalem, not knowing the things that will happen to me there,

23 except that the Holy Spirit testifies in every city, saying that chains and tribulations await me.

24 But none of these things move me; nor do I count my life dear to myself, so that I may finish my race with joy, and the ministry which I received from the Lord Jesus, to testify to the gospel of the grace of God.

25 And indeed, now I know that you all, among whom I have gone preaching the kingdom of God, will see my face no more.

26 Therefore I testify to you this day that I am innocent of the blood of all men.

27 For I have not shunned to declare to you the whole counsel of God.

28 Therefore take heed to yourselves and to all the flock, among which the Holy Spirit has made you overseers, to shepherd the church of God which He purchased with His own blood.

29 For I know this, that after my departure savage wolves will come in among you, not sparing the flock.

30 Also from among yourselves men will rise up, speaking perverse things, to draw away the disciples after themselves.

 

 

Winston Churchill once referred to an adversary as a "sheep in sheep's clothing." The pleasant fellow staring us down does not have that problem. photo credit

 

 

31 Therefore watch, and remember that for three years I did not cease to warn everyone night and day with tears.

32 So now, brethren, I commend you to God and to the word of His grace, which is able to build you up and give you an inheritance among all those who are sanctified.

33 I have coveted no one's silver or gold or apparel.

34 Yes, you yourselves know that these hands have provided for my necessities, and for those who were with me.

35 I have shown you in every way, by laboring like this, that you must support the weak. And remember the words of the Lord Jesus, that He said, It is more blessed to give than to receive.

36 And when he had said these things, he knelt down and prayed with them all.

37 Then they all wept freely, and fell on Paul's neck and kissed him,

38 sorrowing most of all for the words which he spoke, that they would see his face no more. And they accompanied him to the ship.

 

 

Ephesus was a seaport town in what is today Turkey.

 

 

You have never heard the famous verse 35 of Acts 20 expounded in detail... because the contextual message is very damning toward the activities of many of the clergy today... our friends, the wolves. 

Let's look at the details...

(1) Paul had served these people to such an extent, had spent himself, and deprived himself, well beyond the call of duty, that he, in plain but utterly sincere language, could say to the house-churches of Ephesus (vs. 20): "You well know how I bent over backwards to serve your needs" (vss. 18, 19).

(2) Paul ups-the-ante of his point by straight-forwardly reminding them that his work was performed free of charge (vs. 33); moreover, he wants them to know (though he could have lived off of donations) that he held down a day-job to pay his own way - and not only for himself but his helpers as well! (vs. 34). Additionally, his life was no stranger to danger and threat of death (vs. 22).

(3) Notice also how Paul makes a strong point about how frankly he had spoken to them (vss. 20, 27); in other words, he had no hidden agenda; he didn't slant his story in order to "sell them something." What-you-see-is-what-you-get with Paul. He didn't talk down to his people. He expected them to be able to understand what he understood; to live a good life, to the same degree as he was living it. There was no separation of "the elites" and "the commoners." Only wolves talk that way.

Paul, in his departing words, finds himself overcome with a deep sense of foreboding about the future state of the congregation.

Why?

He senses that some of those now referred to as "elders" - the religious leadership of the church - will make merchandise of the group when he's gone - "wolves" he calls them (vs. 29)... those driven by physical passions and appetites but masquerading as God's servants.

With tears streaming down his face, Paul announces that some of those in the very group he was addressing would, indeed, have hidden agendas; they would take the congregation's money; they would not speak plainly but "perversely," all for the express reason to build a power-base for "themselves" (vs. 30).

And in case anyone missed his point (vs. 35), he underlined it in red by saying that his purpose for laboring so hard - all that he did in Ephesus - was to set an example of effective, compassionate, ministerial service characterized by "supporting the weak."

Stated differently, Paul is saying that he wanted to be a living, walking example of The Truth, of what it meant to be an authentic spiritual leader. In verse 35 he also emphasizes that he did not serve as spiritual leader by living off the money that could have been commanded from the Church but, instead, he paid his own way! He did not want to give even the impression that he was taking advantage of anyone, lest this misperception hurt someone in their relationship with God!

And we come, in the same verse (35), to that famous line: It is more blessed to give than to receive.

Now, in context, does a fuller sense become more clear regarding what Paul meant by quoting Jesus, the Authentic Spiritual Leader, who gave up everything to serve the Church?

"Blessed" does not refer to "happiness," a pleasant psychological state of mind; here this word has the sense of "prosperous."

We must bear in mind the audience - these are elders - Paul is speaking to the religious leaders of the Church.

When Paul uses the words, It is more blessed to give than to receive, he means to say:

 

  • "The Church will be more prosperous, more successful, if we, the religious leaders, support and give to the weak! rather than acting like wolves - prowling, on the take, seeking to satisfy base appetites and passions, at the expense of the church members!"

 

  • Editor's note: It is the height of both irony and chutzpah that religious wolves will often employ this very verse - Acts 20:25 - as scriptural basis for an appeal for money from the flock! They will try to make you feel guilty, for not shelling out more cash, as they chant, "It is more blessed to give than to receive" - incredibly, a verse quoting the words of the great Apostle, one who would not accept donations! and worked a day-job! lest he become an offense to others! and, by these famous words, meant to restrain the wolves from fleecing the flock! This audacity, and bold-faced deception, is also seen in Washington today where certain ones will quote the U.S. Constitution, will claim to uphold the Constitution, as they support totalitarian policies that the Founders would spit upon!

 

Paul is leaving Ephesus. It is instructive to consider what he does not say.

He does not say, "This is my church. I started everything here. I expect to have weekly reports mailed to me on all developments. I expect to be involved in all decisions. I intend to maintain a steel grip on all things done here. Wherever I am is the world headquarters of the church, and nothing is to be done without my say-so."

He had something of a right to say that. It was his own labor that started the congregation in Ephesus.

But he does not say this, even in the knowledge that the Ephesian church would soon be attacked by wolves. Paul can sense the attitudes of some in the group. He knows who the money-mongers are. He knows those who love the glory, but would never get their hands dirty. What they are is written all over their faces.

Instead, he says: "I commend you to God" (vs. 32). He believed in decentralized authority. Decision-making on the local level. He was no power-and-control freak, but trusted the Spirit to eventually sort things out.

A wolf never talks that way... for them, it's all about money, power, sex, control, and empire-building... And "how many new tithe-payers did we bring in this week?" ... all manifestations of a wolf's ravenous appetite.

Remember this...

  • Some of those who wept with Paul that day, hugged his neck, bit their lower lips, and kissed him (vs. 37), as he departed, might have won an academy award for best supporting actor... very convincing... except to Paul... he knew what they were, on the inside... vicious, hungry, base, prowling, predatory, wolves...

That's why you've never heard too much detail about verse 35... as Paul said... frankness was never really their strong suit (vss. 20, 27, 30).

 

 

What are the implications of all this?

This question, and the word implication, always makes me think of an incident in one of Paul's other congregations... the church in Galatia. (See the map above, as it would be located in the northern part of Turkey.)

Peter was visiting the Galatian church one day - I won't go into all the details right now, but Peter shunned the Gentile members, and ate only with the Jewish group.

Well, when Paul heard about this - talk about his inner Kuhn coming out - he went a little bit ballistic.

In front of the whole congregation, Paul called Peter a hypocrite (Galatians 2: 11-14), and dressed him down royally for treating the Greek members as second-class Christians... this is another verse you haven't heard much about... especially from those who purport to "sit in the seat of Peter"!

It's not that Peter was a bad guy, really. It's just that he'd spent his whole life as a Jew. And the Jews were fond of calling the Gentiles little pet names like "dogs" and "swine."

So, now Paul comes along and announces to the apostles in Jerusalem that God had given the Spirit to the Gentiles... mmmmmm... they had to think about this... this will take a little getting used to.

When Peter visited the Gentile congregation of Galatia, he hadn't really processed the real meaning of what it meant for Gentiles to be considered full brothers and sisters in Christ. It sounded good in theory, but, at mealtimes, Peter did what he had always done since childhood... he treated the Gentile members as if they were lepers, and wouldn't socialize with them.

Peter learned from Paul that the old ways were now obsolete. And that he needed to discover the true implications of what the teaching of Jesus really signifies. It means...

(1) to be released, and to be set free, from legalistic, religious systems - all forms of legalism, Jewish and Gentile, ancient and modern; and...

(2) to live in the liberty of the Spirit,

all of which would require some thought; a new paradigm of life, and a radical shift of one's perspective.

 

The implications frighten many people...

Peter did what he had always done... since childhood.

It's a common story. There are about a billion people, more or less, who call themselves Christians... almost a meaningless term, as there are thousands of sects and denominations, each one promoting different views. Most of these believers grew up in families espousing such particular beliefs. They accepted what parents taught. And only a very small minority, in any group, has objectively searched out the facts and decided that a particular religion is for them.

This same dynamic of following family religious traditions can be seen operating in the Jewish faith; or the Islamic faith; or any other that we might mention.

Essentially, the whole world is following what mom and dad did.

What are the implications of this?

 

What is the purpose of religion?

There's a reason why there are so many tens of thousands of religious groups, isms, sects, denominations, etc., etc.

The variation is extensive because each caters to a specific level of consciousness or maturity of its members... or, in many cases, the lack thereof.

Religion was meant to be a temporary phase for you. But most of the world has taken up permanent residence.

Are you offended by this statement?

 

  • It's not my idea. It's what the Apostle Paul said.

 

Well, here's one more of those areas of scripture that the wolves will never mention. Paul said that religion - all forms of legalistic, rule-book religion - is like kindergarten; or the nursery; or the ABCs; or even, a prison.

Religion, said Paul, is like being a little kid and having a nanny follow you around to make sure you do the right thing. But, when you grow up, Paul said, the time for nannies is so over... unless you intend never to get a job and just live in your mother's basement...

What are the implications of freedom, of maturity, in the economy of God?

What does this mean?

The wolves will never address this... because... they really don't want you to get uppity and start wandering off the plantation. They intend to keep you dependent. Pay and pray.

Maybe the most important question is this...

Do you want to wander off the plantation? out of the nursery? beyond the ABCs? 

Many people do not. There's a sense of security in the nursery. Life is well regulated. Predictable. Certain. The apostle Paul said it, I didn't.

 

  • Niccolo Machiavelli, 1513: "There is nothing more difficult to plan, more doubtful of success, nor more dangerous to manage than the creation of a new order of things... It is just as difficult and dangerous to try to free a people that wants to remain servile as it is to enslave a people that wants to remain free."

 

I understand that most people will feel offended at these words.

The idea that religion could, in some sense, become obsolete, is very threatening to many. Fills them with fear. The sense of guilt quickly overwhelms.

  • If I didn't have my list of rules, my "true" day of worship, my formulaic prayers, my set of "true doctrines," who would I be? How would I know that God accepts me? Without religion, might I not just run wild, and become a degenerate?

These are questions that everyone needs to think about. Paul forced Peter to think about the implications. And Paul's words reach out to us today, too.

 

 

The two views of religion and spirituality

On one side, we have the wolves, who will encourage our fears; and will suggest that we, without them, are no good; and that we need them to keep us in line... for the usual and customary fee, of course.

But then there are people like the apostle Paul, who will appeal to one's higher nature, and will say, Everything is ok! You were made in the image of God. You have every wonderful thing within that soul, your True Self, that God gave you... all you have to do is reduce the fears, and you'll find that True Self of yours ready break out into the freedom that you were meant to have.

Well, if you think that you might like to take a chance on what the apostle Paul has to say, I will facilitate a discussion here, and present to you many things for your consideration. The next several articles will address various aspects of this topic.

 

 

What is the purpose of spiritual authority?
What is religious abuse?

I think we can offer a preliminary answer to these questions now.

We have learned, even from past discussions, that the glory of your own soul is formidable, indeed.

Jesus used the analogy of the Artesian Well, "Living Water," that natural spring of water which, without anyone laboring to draw it, will automatically rise to the surface of one's life and consciousness.

 

  • Authentic spiritual authority will show you how to tap the Artesian Well of your own soul! It's not difficult, you just need a little instruction. Makes sense, doesn't it? God wouldn't have made it hard! 

 

And, with this, you will soon discover that love, forgiveness, peace... and any other virtue you care to mention... will begin to sweetly invade your consciousness, will begin to heal you from the inside, will begin to strengthen that sense of yourself as a glorious soul made in the image of God... more and more, this will happen for you... and this Living Water, your own sense of well-being, the product of your own soul, will refresh you, and bubble-up to the surface of your life... no huffing and puffing, no straining and groaning... and, it will be as Jesus said...

  • "Are you tired? Worn out? Burned out on religion? Come to me. Get away with me, and you'll recover your life. I'll show you how to take a real rest. Walk with me and work with me - watch how I do it.  Learn the unforced rhythms of grace. I won't lay anything heavy or ill-fitting on you. Keep company with me, and you'll learn to live freely and lightly."Matt. 11: 28-30, The Message

 

 

 

Is that what you want? It's not hard, but ya gotta wanna... it's all about free choice... no one, in this life or the next, will ever force anything on you, even if its good!

Some of you do want that Artesian Water, but you've been so beaten down, so terrorized, and burdened with guilt, by the wolves, who, from the time you were little, told you that you are no good... and you are afraid... and you feel so guilty... and you doubt that God loves you... and if you were to do something different, maybe God would strike you down, maybe send you to hell.

Dear friends... first of all, allow me to say, it is normal to feel that way... feelings such as these indicate that you are a victim of the mind-control games (P.S. #21) employed by The Lying Teacher and The Wolves... But there is healing for you; it will come to you, little by little, as you recover yourself, from the vicious designs of those who have bought-and-sold you, milked you, slaughtered you, like cattle.

 

 

George Harrison, While My Guitar Gently Weeps

 
"I look at you all see the love there that's sleeping...
I don't know why nobody told you, how to unfold your love
I don't know how someone controlled you
They bought and sold you...
No one alerted you...
Still my guitar gently weeps...

 

 

Religious abuse is easy to understand. We've already said it. There are those who see you as a meal; a paycheck; a pension plan; maybe a trophy; possibly, as a sexual object; but, in every case, a crutch or prop for sick little ego-identities... they need you to feel good about themselves.

Let me quote myself and share this with you. A number of years ago I wrote about dysfunctional romantic love. The dynamic in play within neurotic relationships is much the same as that between wolf and acquiescing prey... it is, in fact, a destructive co-dependency!

  • "I don't feel good about myself - but I would, if I could just play the boss, and if you would just let me run things, and rule over you, then I would have a macho sense of self-worth - now, you, on the other hand, with such low self-esteem, will be agreeable to everything I say, and will just want to be accepted, on any basis; you just need to be needed, and will do anything, so long as I don't reject you - you will even suffer my abuse, even make excuses for me to your family, as my stern rule over you supplies to you your sense of security. And we shall tell the world that all of this pathology is romantic love!"
     

 

And, in the religious sphere, in the vast majority of cases, we call it... "church"!

It's a dance - a pathological and destructive dance. He needs to rule, and she needs to be needed... and we witness this kind of co-dependent mentality playing out in many churches today.

We have seen that Jesus and Paul employed the striking and bold metaphor of the wolf to describe the ways of the corrupt religious leader. I should not have dared to be so bold. But, let's think, a little more, about the simile of the abusive husband... think of Farrah in her great performance in The Burning Bed...

 

 

Farrah Fawcett,
The Burning Bed

Farrah Fawcett plays an abused mother who kills her husband by setting his bed on fire. She is then arrested for murder, pleads insanity, and sets to convince the jury by recounting her story describing exactly what she endured. A staggering study of domestic abuse, this movie brings the emotional crises of abused women to heart-aching life.

 


The corrupt religious leader will try to keep you barefoot and pregnant; try to keep you dependent and stupid; will attempt to separate and sequester you, from the rest of the world, so that he can better control you... don't get any high-fallutin ideas, just listen to what I tell you, 'cause God made me head of the wife..."

 

Editor's update, September 3, 2009: A reader sent to me this comment: "Domestic abuse is a sort of generational curse in that, going backwards from myself to at least 3 generations, on my maternal side, and probably further back, on my paternal side, there is known domestic violence. The boys grew up receiving the baton of entitlement (don't gimme no lip, bitch!); and the girls grew up in their own kind of denial (don't you kids make your Daddy mad now, you know how he gets when he ain't feelin' good!). Mothers passing this sick legacy on to their daughters with platitudes like, you made your bed now lay in it; or shoveling blame with, what did you do to make him mad? Sure sets the stage for NOT voting your conscience, and being a nice girl, who does EXACTLY what the priest or pastor says. I actually know of a woman who's husband said to her, you'll vote the way I tell you to vote..."

 

 

So, after considering some of this, allow me to rephrase a question, one that you must answer for yourself... how many emotional and psychological beatings, how many wolf-inspired guilt-trips, will you take until you leave that abusive husband? How worthless, and guilty, does he need to make you feel before you rise up and assert yourself... and reclaim for yourself the dignity of what it means to be human?

The apostle Paul used analogies of kindergarten; or the nursery; or the ABCs; or even, a prison... as he spoke of religion. The universal principles here relate to freedom and maturity. He might have reduced it all to two questions...

Do you want to be set free? Do you want to grow up?

Paul forced Peter to move out of his comfort zone and away from long-held concepts, cherished even from childhood... away from what Dad and Grandma had to say. 

Are you willing to do that?

Do you want to be set free? Do you want to grow up?

Some of you are already making excuses, even now... the fear of thinking new thoughts is starting to choke some of you... the guilt, rising now, like a fever... God might strike me down, send me to hell.

And some of you are steadying yourselves with...

yes, there are religious abuses in the world, but my minister, my priest, is such a nice young man, so polite, such a good speaker, and he loves the children so...

Most people, it seems, will be too fearful to desire true freedom and maturity. That's not my verdict, but the testimony of many AfterLife entities! They bemoan the confused, fearful, and childish mental state, of so many people, who, at the end of their mortal lives, are thrust upon their Guides for healing. And such debilitation, the direct result of living with the malicious wolves - who, themselves, will pay dearly, in the Next Life, for their rapaciousness - might cause you to be hurt, and set back, for hundreds of years to come [see my forthcoming article].

Do you want to be set free? Do you want to grow up?

 

  • That nice young man of whom some of you speak is also a victim of a larger diseased system. There are no churches in the Spirit World! There are no ministers and priests, no rabbis and monks, over there!

 

There are no religious people over there, in the Next Life...

Well... I take it back, there are... but not in the places that you'll want to go to... you won't want to be caught dead there. Only in the "bad neighborhoods," if you know what I mean, do they still "go to church." But, in the good regions, starting in Summerland (P.S. #7), and beyond, there are only ordinary people, who enjoy themselves; and each other, and love each other; ordinary people who love their work, and life, immensely.

People like this...

 

 

Editor's note: As you can see, Uncle John liked my joke about "being caught dead" - ha, ha, ha - It is an honor for me to write of my Uncle John (on the left); little known to the world, he was, and is, one of the great men of history. I reported to you in P.S. #23 that he sent a message to me via psychic medium. Since then, I have received two other very significant messages from my Uncle... who is now my Good Friend. He is still the same way, but, I think, more forceful now... the "Kuhn in him," you know [smile]. I will speak more of his recent words to me another time. But I will tell you right now that he is very much interested in these articles of mine, and supplies to me certain insights; for example, the Artesian Well analogy is his prompting; I hadn't thought of that in 30 years. What you have read in this article represents a kind of joint effort between us. Advanced entities on the Other Side deeply desire all people to live a life of joy and freedom, as they do. And these evolved souls, in that World of Happiness, are no longer religious, even if they had been so while on earth. They understand, more clearly now, how things really work. In the paragraphs below, I shall be inviting you to further explore what it means to be spiritually mature, spiritually free. As I see my Uncle's shining self in these photos herein, I realize that I have a few things yet to learn about this subject... so, I will be taking my own advice, and will consider, and rehearse, the basic principles once more. I don't mind being a student. My Uncle is such a great teacher. It's a joy to be in his classroom. I hope you will take his course with me. One more thing... you wanna here something funny... in the last few months, ever since I began "hanging out" with Uncle John, several people, those whom I might have just met, hardly know, have asked me, "You're a priest, aren't you! I just know you're a priest, I can feel it!" Some of them are very insistent. They are sure. And they keep asking me... well... I think I know what's happened... [smile]

 

 

So, what do you want? Do you still want to be "religious"? You can do that, if you must... but... I'm trying to break this gently to you... it won't turn out so well for you.

Do you want to be set free? Do you want to grow up?

Maybe this will help you to understand...

When the apostle Paul spoke of religion as kindergarten; or the nursery; or the ABCs; or even, a prison... he wasn't drawing a distinction between corrupt religion and these places of restraint or immaturity. He was comparing all religion, even the kind run by "the nice young man," to these other things.

Paul's point is that religion is meant to be a temporary phase in our lives. And it doesn't matter who's nice or not. The question is... do you want to leave the nursery?  

Allow me to press this analogy... If you're 33, or 47, so to speak, and you still don't want to leave home, and get a job, then maybe you'll grant to me that there's a problem. And no amount of religious talk about "how much you love mom," and "how nice she is," will change the fact that you, buddy, need to get out there.

Do you see what I'm getting at now?

Do you want to be set free? Do you want to grow up?

Frankly, I think the main problem here is that the average person has been so traumatized, so beaten up, by the abusive wolves, that he or she cannot imagine that there's anything better in life for them outside of rule-book religion. They can't imagine what real freedom means! what spiritual maturity means! what life in the Spirit really means!

 

 

The wolves will tell you, without religion, the people will run wild... that freedom will destroy us... this sounds like the kind of Marxist, socialistic propaganda that we're getting from Washington today; that democracy doesn't work; that freedom doesn't work, and that The Elites need to take over the private sector because "capitalism has failed"... is that what you believe?

 

  • Most of you do not believe in autocratic, top-down, soviet-style politics... so, why do many of you accept this totalitarianism in the spiritual domain?

 

Do you want to be set free? Do you want to grow up?

Nursery personnel are usually "nice"... "nice" keeps the kids in line, they don't cry as much that way... crowd control... herd management... [smile] ... don't be so impressed by "nice" ... try disagreeing with the "nice" young man, and suggest a change regarding abusive and archaic doctrines, and you'll find out how long "nice" lasts.

 

 

 

These are important issues, of the highest moment.

 

  • It will always be your decision, no matter what you decide, for better or worse... that's part of your glory, as a Soul, created in God's image... No one can force you out of the nursery; no one can force you to grow up... but I will tell you this... if you refuse to grow up; if, instead, you choose fear; you will miss out, maybe for a very long time, on the ultimate thrill in the universe, that of finding your Destined Twin Soul (P.S. #32)... you will never find her, until you decide to grow up.

 

The longest journey begins with a single step. The process of growing up, of entering into a higher state of spiritual awareness and consciousness, is one that shall occupy our thoughts for the next million years, and beyond.

But it begins with one simple decision... to choose Life.

 

  • A menu, with pretty pictures of banana-cream pie, is not the dessert; a marriage certificate is not the same as Twin Soul, hot-chemistry, flesh-on-flesh; a nursery is not the real world; a photo of your lover is not your lover; the shadow is not the substance; the word love, with four tiny letters, is not fervency of spirit; a painting of a burgundy-and-white orchid, though wonderful, is not an orchid; the child does not represent final progression; a deep-space Hubble image is not the universe; a corpse is not a person... and legalistic religion is merely a bizzarro-form of spirituality... There is an ancient Buddhist proverb, "The finger that points to the moon is not the moon."

 

Accept no substitutes.

Choose Life.

If you are willing to do that much, you can begin.

And you will very soon find, to your most pleasant surprise, that everything is ok... after all.

Look at my Uncle John's shining self, and those people laughing near him... that's all you need to know.

 

  • to be continued...

 

 

 


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