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Personal Statement
#24
Do
Genetics Influence Homosexuality?
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dedicated to
my cousin
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June 19,
2009
I have spoken of Victor Zammit's site,
"A Lawyer Presents The Case For the AfterLife," the scientific evidence for the Other Side.
(see P.S. #3)
Victor Zammit recently
commented:
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ON BEING 'GAY: Over the
last twenty-one years, I received a number of emails asking
whether being gay will affect what will happens to a person in the
afterlife. Highly reliable information
transmitted from the afterlife tells us that sexual preference
will make no difference on crossing over. Whether one is gay or
heterosexual, the critical thing is how much love we have shown,
how much unselfish work we did for others, how many people we
tried to help. Some religious fundamentalists are against
homosexuality- but they make up their OWN rules. Studies have
shown that in every culture a significant percentage of people are
gay. Various theories suggest that sexuality may not be a matter
of free will but genes, hormones and birth order - see
video on the scientific findings. Ultimately, it is the spiritual life that will be
immediately critical on crossing over - not our beliefs or sexual
preference.
The two
best websites on the AfterLife
Kevin
Williams also offers a web site featuring the
most extensive information regarding the near-death experience - see it here
!
An NDE
story for you
Kevin features a small section
on "Gay and Lesbian NDEs." Here is an excerpt of one of the
stories:
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And I thought, "But I can't
go back because my body is too far gone, it's beyond
repair."
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And I was also afraid that
I could never accomplish, with all of my physical limitations, all
that I could do as a spirit form, which felt so free and
unencumbered.
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I remember feeling angry
and fearful about going back, after being in all of this light -
to have to go back to the darkness. And then I felt the presence
of Jesus Christ all around me. The feeling of love was completely
overwhelming. I felt as though I was swimming in an ocean of
ecstasy.
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And I asked him, "Do I
really have to go back?"
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And his answer was that I
was a part of God's divine plan, as is every person, and that my
ultimate purpose is to love and serve God and all sentient beings.
And I could tell that he understood all of my fear and doubt. And
he assured me that I would heal and recover...
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Then Christ said that he
would send me guardian angels to aid me in my healing, and to
guide and protect me...
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I awakened to find two
men kneeling over me, with expressions of apprehension and concern
on both their faces. For some reason I felt that they might be gay
men. They
both looked to be in their thirties. I couldn't help but notice
how handsome they both were, and that they were beautifully
dressed in what appeared to be very expensive business clothes. I
remember thinking that they might be some kind of executives
working for a corporation, which in fact is exactly what they
turned out to be. One of the men obviously had some type of first
aid training, and had monitored my vital signs. They informed me
that an ambulance was on its way and to try to remain still and
not speak, which was easy to do, considering the extent of my
injuries. They had both taken off their jackets and laid them over
me, and I was horrified to discover that the jackets were covered
with blood and completely ruined. I remember feeling embarrassed,
and yet enormously grateful for the kindness of these two
strangers. Their entire presence was completely warm and
comforting, and I felt strangely safe and
protected.
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They waited alongside me
until the ambulance came, and then arrived at the hospital to make
sure that I was properly attended to. They visited me in the
hospital on two separate occasions. I made a somewhat feeble offer
to replace their ruined clothes, but they simply laughed it off,
and insisted that the only thing that mattered was that I was
alive and more or less in one piece. Again their mere presence
filled me with a sense of hope and courage.
I felt very strongly that both men symbolized what
would prove to be a succession of "angels" that Christ had promised
to send me. This, in fact, turned out to be truer than I could
possibly have imagined...
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This article... dedicated
to my cousin, my friend
I have a cousin whom I've not
seen since we were children. I still remember all of us kids playing
tag, running through the tall weeds, on his old farm. I understand
that he's a professional person in New York today. A long time ago,
in order to pursue a different lifestyle, he decided that he needed
to leave our small farming community. To the family's detriment, our
loss, he never came back.
This article is
dedicated to him, with my best and warmest wishes. And I would like to do what I can, my own
small efforts, to remove the toxic superstitions and neurotic
fears that surround the issue of homosexuality.
Understanding Homosexuality... just ask
any beauty pageant contestant!
This is hilarious, of course.
Today, beauty queens rise and fall, are crowned and dethroned,
lauded and cast away, depending on how they answer the third-rail
questions regarding the gay lifestyle.
You know... there they are,
onstage, in all of their sleek, curvacious, and voluptuous
glory. First comes the swimsuit competition - strut your stuff, and
howd'ya like them ankles; then comes the singing and dancing
competition; finally, the crucial test, what all of America really
wants to know: how will you perform in the gay-questioning
competition?
sigh!
Things
I'd like to discuss
Today it's difficult to
have a rationale discussion concerning homosexuality.
I would like to touch on two
aspects of this heated discussion:
(1) the genetic basis for
homosexuality; and
(2) the true reason
why some so venomously attack it.
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Dick Cheney had it right...
"Freedom For Everyone"!
June 1, 2009 news item:
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Former Vice
President Dick Cheney said Monday he supports gays being able to
marry but believes states, not the federal government, should make
the decision.
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"I think, you know, freedom
means freedom for everyone," Cheney said in a speech at the
National Press Club. "I think people
ought to be free to enter into any kind of union they wish, any
kind of arrangement they wish."
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Cheney, who has a
gay daughter, said marriage has always been a state
issue.
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Civility... the
root idea of Civilization
The Nazis would use the
phrase "German physics" and how they would not accept "Jewish
physics"! Their politics and ideology so poisoned their view of life
that it was no longer possible to rationally talk about what should
have been clinical, objective, scientific data.
We see this same spirit today
in the "global warming" debate - because it's no longer about global
warming - it's about politics; about power and control over
others.
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Denis
Diderot: "There is only one step from fanaticism to
barbarism."
And we see this same fanatical,
legalistic spirit in the "genetics" debate regarding homosexuality.
There are some who reject science that isn't "christian," will tell
you that there is not an iota of biological basis for being gay -
that's it's all a matter of "choice"! And since, so they
say, it's a simple choice, those of the gay community are not
merely different, but culpable... and worthy of
condemnation.
The
Gospel According To Mark
Mark is an MD, my next-door
neighbor. Dad would not be pleased at my having stopped a
man on his tractor! [smile], but I recently walked across
Mark's backyard lawn and flagged-down his riding
mower.
I asked his opinion about the
"genetics" controversy - I wanted to know how he
viewed this subject.
Here's what Mark said, and I
paraphrase:
"There are three camps
regarding this debate. One says that homosexuality is solely a
function of nurture and environment; another says that it is the
result of genetics; and a third group takes a middle road, a
combination of nature and nurture, with a 'triggering event' that
causes unexpressed, latent, genetic material to manifest itself."
I found the "triggering event"
comment most interesting, as it conforms to what I have learned from
Dr. Gerald Schroeder regarding a larger issue, that of evolutionary
species-development.
"And what is your personal
view?"
"I lean in the direction of the
third camp, the genetics and the triggering event." He cited a
study, meaningful to him, concerning twins (see below) with
highly suggestive correlative data.
The
Genetic Basis For Homosexuality:
It is easy to find the
following material on the internet, as there is much discussion.
Here is a summary of the primary data supporting a biological basis
for homosexuality.
I think the answer to this
debate will become clear to you. The following are direct
quotes, without reference to the sources.
Genetics:
#1
Studies have been conducted that look at
twin brothers rather than brothers of different ages. Bailey and
Pillard (1991) did a study of twins that determined a 52% concordance of homosexuality in monozygotic
twins, 22% for dizygotic twins, and 11% for adoptive brothers of homosexual men.
These results, like Hamer's, provide further support for the claim
that homosexuality is genetically linked. Studies very similar to
the Bailey and Pillard study have been done both with female
homosexual siblings and siblings of both sexes. The results for both
of these studies were only off from Bailey and Pillard's by a few
percentage points. Putting all of these results together, it seems
like genetics are at least 50%
accountable
for determining a person's sexual orientation.
Genetics:
#2
Compared to straight men, gay men are more likely to be left-handed, to be the younger
siblings of older brothers, and to have hair that whorls in a
counterclockwise direction. US researchers are finding
common biological traits among gay men, feeding a growing consensus
that sexual orientation is an inborn combination of genetic and
environmental factors that largely decide a person's sexual
attractions before they are born.
Genetics:
#3
"In the past decade, I think
the pendulum has swung more toward biological theory and biological
causes," said Richard Lippa, a psychology professor at California
State University-Fullerton, who has studied hair patterns and other
biological traits in gay men. Sven Bocklandt, a geneticist at the
David Geffen school of medicine at UCLA, is bewildered by the
argument that people choose their sexual attraction. He said that virtually every animal species that has
been studied - from sheep to fruit flies - has a small minority of
individuals who demonstrate homosexual activity. "I really believe the reason most humans are
straight is the same reason that most crocodiles are straight, and
the same reason most whales are straight," Bocklandt said. "Nature
would not leave something so important for reproduction, for the
survival of the species, to coincidence."
Genetics:
#4
Less understood is the degree to which
sexual orientation is determined by genes or environmental factors,
such as hormones or immunological factors that may act on a foetus.
What scientists call "the fraternal birth order effect," the fact
that each successive boy born to the same mother has a greater
chance of being gay, may be due to an increasing immunological
response by a mother's body to each male foetus in her womb. Long
discredited are theories that parenting - one mid-20th century
theory held that boys raised by a domineering mother with a distant
father were more likely to be gay - has anything to do with sexual
orientation. Evidence of that, said Michael Bailey, a professor of
psychology at Northwestern University in Illinois, comes from
studies of genetically male infants born with
malformed or ambiguous genitals. In many such cases, surgeons would construct a vagina, and instruct
parents to raise the child as a girl, with no knowledge of his medical history. As adults, those prenatally male/postnatally
female people were
virtually all attracted
to women, Bailey said. "If you can't
make a male attracted to other males by cutting off his penis,
castrating him and rearing him as a girl, then how likely is any
social explanation of male homosexuality?" he said.
Genetics:
#5
Women may have more fluidity of sexual
expression than men, but that doesn't mean they don't have a
specific sexual orientation, said Lisa Diamond, a professor of
psychology and gender studies at the University of Utah who studies
female sexual orientation. One explanation is that women's sexual
behaviour is driven more by relationships. For some women, "your
sexual orientation does not provide the last word on the sorts of
behaviours and identities you might experience in your lifetime,"
Diamond said. "Some lesbian women are
predominantly attracted to women, but some of them have found
themselves becoming incredibly close to their best male friends,
sometimes having sex with them. It does not make them straight. It's
not, since you had a one-night stand with your male friend, that you
can choose to become straight."
Genetics:
#6
The preponderance of
researchers say attraction is dictated by biology, with no demonstrated contribution
from social factors such as parenting or other factors after birth.
A host of studies since the mid-1990s have found common biological
traits between gay men, including left-handedness and the direction
of hair whorls. The likelihood that if one identical twin is gay,
the other will be also be gay is much higher than the "concordance"
of homosexuality between fraternal twins, indicating that genes play
a role in sexual orientation, but are not the entire
cause.
Genetics:
#7
Another study done by Simon LeVay focused on
the size of INAH3 nucleus of the hypothalamus. He wanted to test
whether the areas INAH-2 and INAH3 in the nucleus were different in
size not by sex, but by sexual orientation. By proving a difference
in size, he could establish that the brains of gay men were similar
to that of women's brains. He only found that INAH-2 exhibited
difference in sexual orientation. It was two
times larger in heterosexual men as homosexual men, and he
concluded it was different because of sexual
orientation, not because of a difference in
sex.
Discussion from
others
The following notes were
submitted by various individuals. They provide additional
information and insight.
Discussion:
#1
Okay. I CHOOSE not to get
cancer.... even though it runs rampant in my family's genetics.
Wait, how about this. I CHOOSE to avoid the risk factors that can
aggravate my GENETIC predisposition to cancer. You see the paradox
here? Some homosexuals simply cannot CHOOSE to ignore their make-up.
Sure, some who are genetically predisposed to homosexuality can make
life choices that steer away from homosexual trigger points, if you
will, but that would still require a level of awareness of the
disposition, hence the struggle and paradox at hand! You feel what
you feel, and you can't CHOOSE to avoid it. Let us not mince words,
err, beliefs here. I am a Christian and a very well educated man in
the sciences and I do not confuse the facts with the fictions.
Discussion:
#2
i am a homosexual who is living in an islamic
country. i did not chose to be gay, if you just think for one second
you will realize how ridiculous it is to chose
to be gay in an islamic country, because the punishment of
homosexuality in islam is just DEATH. from the very first day
of my puberty i realized that i have homosexual desires i was truly
terrified, because i did not want to be like this. year after year i
understood that its something inside me and i don't have any control
over it. you know can imagine how hard it is that you are a gay and
you cant change it. now i am 25 years old man, who is a medical
student and have many achievements in my life (i'm not saying it as
a compliment), but has a very sad aspect of life, which is i am
still a virgin because i am gay. and if i find a partner and i be
arrested i will be killed. i have no desire for sex with women. and
let me tell you another fact: my twin brother is
homosexual too. and we were both afraid to tell
this truth to each other. you cruel people who think that
homosexuality is a choice, is better to go and discuss with gay
people. you will find out that we all were born that way. again its
soooooooooooooooooo ridiculous to think that i chose to be gay in an
islamic country.
Discussion:
#3
I don't know if it is ignorance, religious
practices, or selfishness that causes some to believe that
homosexuality is a choice. Especially after knowing and reading
previous accounts of the hardships associated with being gay. I have
a little sister, who I love dearly, and am sad that she has to
endure such criticism from people who don't even know her. She has been clearly gay from puberty on. She is a smart, creative beautiful woman who
is also a doctor. Those of you are so ignorant to suggest that
anyone would live a homosexual lifestyle have already made up your
stubborn minds and clearly have issues yourselves. And let me tell
you all something, you can't change the fact that homosexuality
exists, so you may as well go with the flow. These days, thinking
that homosexuality is a choice makes you appear uneducated. I am
talking about people who are truly homosexual, not just looking for
some attention or satisfying their curiosity.
Discussion:
#4
A great experiment would be to
ask any number of homosexuals if they feel as if they chose
their orientation or if they feel as if a genetic predisposition
played a role in their sexuality. I'd bet dollars to donuts that
100% of participants say that homosexuality is not something that
can be chosen. I am a young (25), successful and attractive
woman and I haven't had/wanted/or even thought about for that
matter, any sort of sexual contact with a man in eight years. Being gay is not an easy lifestyle and no one would
choose this. Reading posts about
the bible and God's will are actually entertaining to me at this
point. Hopefully, someday everyone will get it.
Discussion:
#5
Homosexuality is prevalent throughout nature.
Petter Boeckman had an exhibit in Norway displaying homosexuality in the animal kingdom. If you need examples of this there are
many articles I am uncovering that might help your understanding
that homosexuality is definitively NOT against nature:
http://www.news-medical.net/?id=20718 http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_animals_displaying_homosexual_behavior
You can check those out. I have been reading a
lot of the comments here and it seems that some people are missing a
basic understanding of genetics and the roles of genotypes and
phenotypes. I don't claim to be an expert but I do understand enough
to say that 58% is a pretty good
indicator
that homosexuality is affected by genetics. In nature
many of the animals that practice homosexuality still produce
offspring. There are many reasons why homosexuality could be seen as
a positive. A couple hypothesis are that homosexuals in a species
help more with rearing the offspring than the heterosexual males,
this is seen with a lot of primates and heard animals (as stated in
the above articles). Another hypothesis is that in herd animals
homosexuality helps with a peaceful means of population control.
Just because someone is a carrier of a gene that has a potential of
building a person this way or that way doesn't make it 100% so.
In science nothing is 100% true, any study that
will show you otherwise is not scientific. There is always a potential of fallibility. The
big question raised in my mind is that if more people were educated
to know that homosexuality is not against nature and is about as
natural as breathing, what would the next argument be? I would think
that if the people that are saying this are implying that God
created nature and God's will is infallible then it would be a
contradiction to say that god is against homosexuality at all.
Discussion:
#6
I sincerely agree with the research. People
who are truely homosexual (not just bi or curious or whatnot), but
are truely and innately gay DO NOT have a
choice. They are born to be gay, just like someone who is
heterosexual is born to be that way. Now, if we DO propose that it
is due to environmental factors, then why are some brothers or
sisters who live in the same household, and grow up with the same
influences, opposite in their sexual orientation? As far as the
twins argument goes, genes do not play the entire roll when it comes
do determining who we are. The human design is so complex that any
change in its design can result in dramatic changes. To say that being homosexual is wrong would be like
saying someone born with down syndrome is wrong. If you are going to say that
homosexuality is a choice, than you must say that heterosexuality is
a choice as well, and that we are all born neutral, and deside "I
want to be gay or I want to be straight," which is ridiculous.
Imagine if someone ridiculed you for being straight, you would think
to yourself, "I can't help it," so why should it be any different
for someone who is gay?
Discussion:
#7
Scientists have identified genetics as a
cause of homosexuality. This has been accomplished through a type of
study on people who identify as homosexual (and non-homosexual as a
control group) and a region of the genome to identify whether there
is a genetic component to homosexuality. Another type of study,
"twin studies,"
uses pairs of non-twin siblings, dizygotic twins,
and monozygotic twins, who share between half and all of their
genetic information (non-twin siblings-50%, dizygotic twins-50%,
monozygotic-100%). One sibling (or twin) is compared to the other
one of the pair in terms of their sexuality, and the co-occurrence
is measured across the three types of pairs. A higher co-occurrence
of homosexuality among monozygotic twins, who share the same genetic
information (compared to dizygotic twins and non-twin siblings who
share only half), provides evidence of a genetic link to
homosexuality. Both of these types of studies, as well as others,
have shown with statistical significance that there is evidence of a
genetic component to homosexuality. I have provided links to
webpages that reference studies on the topic of a genetic link to
homosexuality. Here are a few that seem to support the idea of a
genetic influence on homosexuality: http://serendip.brynmawr.edu/exchange/node/1925 http://www.dailyprincetonian.com/archives/2006/10/12/news/16168.shtml http://www.webmd.com/sex-relationships/news/20050128/is-there-gay-gene
Discussion: #8
Being truly homosexual
is not a choice. I believe genetics play the largest part by far in
determining an individual's sexuality. I know this as i have always
been attracted to boys and men all the way through my life growing
up (i am now 23). When i was very young, even though i couldn't
interpret my feelings at the time, i recall having sexual desires
for boys my age as early as when i was 4 years
old. To me this is
all the evidence i need to believe the environment i grew up in was
irrelevant in determining my sexuality considering i started having
these feelings so early. The only choice to make is whether or not
to embrace or suppress your inherant sexual desires
Discussion:
#9
You're right. No one
needs to tell anyone what they REALLY need to feel. When I was about 12 or 13 years old, I realized
I was attracted to the same sex. The church I attended and society
in general (represented in large part by my classmates at school)
told me that my feelings were wrong. I believed them, and for most
of my teenage years I actively surpressed my feelings, dated women,
and prayed fervently that I would become heterosexual. You know
what? It made no difference. None of it made men any less attractive to me or
women any more attractive to me. It only made me miserable. I was so
miserable I nearly committed suicide. Why didn't I? Because of
precisely what you said. When I dug deep down, I knew what was
really wrong. What was really wrong was that I was denying my
fundamental nature. I was trying to live my life
according to someone else's definition of what is natural and attempting
to ignore nature itself in the process. I was attempting to ignore
what I REALLY felt. It was then that I realized that maybe all the
people who were telling me homosexuality was wrong were, in fact,
wrong themselves. Welcome to that group.
Discussion:
#10
Okay, one major thing to point out:
monozygotic twins have completely identical DNA, correct? If so, and
if homosexuality is indeed genetic, shouldn't there be a 100% rate
of matching sexual orientation? And since there is only a 58% match
according to this article, doesn't that immediately disprove the
idea? Just a thought.
• reply I do
see were you are coming from, it is a good thought, but monozigous
twins are not completely identical many
factors such as fingerprints, rates of metabolism,and sexuality are
not fully developed untill later on in the
womb.
• reply "Okay, one major
thing to point out: monozygotic twins have completely identical DNA,
correct?"
incorrect http://www.sciam.com/article.cfm?id=identical-twins-genes-are-not-identical
Discussion:
#11
I am left handed, both my
parents are right handed- so saying that gays are born to straight
parents is a pointless argument is utterly absurd. Are you under the
ridiculous assumption that every gene is passed and expressed? Then
we would expect our fathers to have breasts, and our mothers to have
beards. Just because your parents carry genes
does not mean you get and express them.
Both parents can have blue eyes, but the children have green. Why?
Because the parents possess the green gene, and therefore have the
POTENTIAL to have it expressed in their off-spring. Besides, they
have already said very clearly that genes can play a part but not
the entire answer.
Discussion:
#12
On the other hand, many gays are wary of the
genetic hypothesis. It could, they fear, help promote the notion
that gayness is a "defect" in need of
"fixing." "Any
finding will be used and twisted for homophobic purposes," says
Martin Duberman, head of the Center for Lesbian and Gay Studies at
the City University of New York. "If it does turn out that for some
people, there is a genetic or hormonal component, the cry will then
arise to take care of that." Indeed, the cry is already rising.
Here's how I see it...
There is so much propaganda
surrounding the gay issue.
Notice Discussion #6: "I sincerely agree with
the research." I know what he means, but how odd to have to say
this! Research - the facts - is what it is! and does not require us
to believe in it for it to sustain existence!
Yet, unfortunately, some people do think
they are entitled to their own set of facts! We're back to "German
physics" and "Jewish physics"!
So much propaganda in the
marketplace!
For example, some think that
male homosexuals are "effeminate"; but that's a myth. Some are, most
aren't. Homosexuals, in the main, throughout history were not viewed
in such terms. Just ask King Leonidas; better yet,
ask Xerxes...
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"Homosexuality has taken place in every
society, from the Polynesian to the Eskimo. In certain tribes, the
rite of passage is performed through a homosexual act, as a part
of cleansing. For the Greeks, homosexuality
was a way of life. The Spartans used it as part of their military
training. Every young man would have an adult lover who
would teach him the arts of war. They would fight side by side,
and the idea was that the 'beloved' young man would inspire the
'lover' adult to perform brave acts, who would not want to be
disgraced in the eyes of his beloved."
You've heard of the 300 Spartans; maybe
you've heard of King Leonidas and his famous "Come and get them!" taunt. This tiny band of
Spartans killed 20,000 of Xerxes' elite Persian warriors!
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Editor's
note: In case you don't
know, but for our friends, the gay Spartans, we today
probably
would not be
enjoying the freedoms and advancements of Western
civilization
- we might be speaking
Persian! If Xerxes had prevailed, there would have been no "Golden
Age of Greece." Some of those gay fellows started almost
every tradition of modern freedom, and almost every academic subject known to humankind! Look at the
first pages of almost any college textbook, and you will
find that the subject under review probably began with
the ancient Greeks! I hate to be unkind right now, but, by
way of contrast, ask yourself this:
What did we get from Orthodox Religion when, in 325
CE, it acquired the might and muscle of the State
and assumed for itself a monopoly on thinking - we got
witchhunts, mass murders, whole groups of people hunted
down, burned alive in oil, inquisition, whole libraries burned, the ultimate in political
correctness; and they ushered in an Era known as THE DARK AGES... 1000 years
of it! It took humanity 1000 years to recover from the rule of
Hate-Religion!

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Editor's note: Read about it in this
scholarly work, a 15-year study, by Dr. Richard
Rubenstein.
We could use a few Spartans on
our team today; instead of "don't ask, don't tell," maybe we should
make it a requirement...
Can gays
go to heaven?
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A question was sent to
attorney and AfterLife researcher,
Victor Zammit:
QUESTION: 'CAN GAYS GO TO HEAVEN'?
I am a 16 year old Catholic and also gay.
What you said last week changed me because I felt very worried
and guilty that I was going to hell when I died. But
thanks to you I feel so much better about what you said that
gays will go to heaven because character you said not sexual
preference will be important. Could you tell me again that
gays can go to heaven and that Cardinal was wrong. I just want
to hear it from you again. Peter.
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How do you
argue against this?
I think Mark is right.
There is ample evidence
supporting the thesis that homosexuality is genetically based. I
hope you study the above points.
The most compelling one, for
me, was this:
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"Michael Bailey, a
professor of psychology at Northwestern University in Illinois...
studies of genetically male infants born with
malformed or ambiguous genitals. In many such cases, surgeons would construct a vagina, and instruct
parents to raise the child as a girl, with no knowledge of his medical history. As adults, those prenatally male/postnatally
female people were
virtually all attracted
to women, Bailey said. "If you can't
make a male attracted to other males by cutting off his penis,
castrating him and rearing him as a girl, then how likely is any
social explanation of male homosexuality?" he said.
How do you rationally argue
against this?
These baby boys were born with
underdeveloped genitalia. A surgeon advises parents to raise these
boys as girls! The surgeon castrates the boys, cuts off the
ambiguous penis, constructs a vagina! These "boys" grow up thinking
- they are told every day - that they are girls! They grow up, in
effect, "making a choice," everyday, to be girls - "making
a choice" that they should love boys - because that's all they know,
because Mom and Dad, since they were babies, have told them
that they are girls! Amazing!
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Yet, later in life, these "women," these
genetically-constructed men - virtually every one of them - want to make
love to women! All of the "nurturing," all of the
"choosing," didn't mean a damn when the DNA came to full bloom -
genetics will have its way!
It's a
choice, huh?
Look at that note (above)
from the gay fellow, the med student, in some dark-age Islamic
country... living under the fear of death, every day, that he might
be found out regarding his true feelings for the same sex. So, it's
just a "choice" for him, huh?
This is such a dramatic
example, and we shouldn't even need more evidence than this. But
let's consider a more commonplace example. A boy grows up in a
community that despises the gay lifestyle. He finally decides to
leave in order to live as he is compelled to live; in order to be
true to himself.
Is this an easy decision? ...
just a simple "choice"?
What it is really like?
It will mean that he will
virtually never - very little, if at all - see his grandparents
again... his parents... his uncles and aunts... his cousins... his
neighbors... his classmates... his closest friends... his brothers
and sisters.
He knows that he will be talked
about, and thought less of, by many in his past.
Is this an easy
decision... just a "choice"?
Think about this.
We live in a society where
almost every television ad preaches the virtues of being accepted,
of being popular, of being admired and thought well of - and
this, they say, is to be accomplished by wearing the latest
fashions, driving the right car, drinking the cola with most fizz...
whatever.
There is tremendous pressure,
on all of us, psychological and otherwise, to conform, to fit in, to
be accepted, to be popular. It takes courage
even to choose a hairstyle or a pair of jeans that is not
approved by the peer group! yet, in the face of great
pressure to conform; in the face of the prospects of living a life
separated from those of one's past; some decide to be different.
You will notice in the testimonies above, so
many say: "Nobody chooses this! There are too many negatives to be endured merely to
satisfy a whimsical choice"!
And yet, there are those who will not accept
the open words, and open hearts, that say, "This
is not something I have simply chosen! I am compelled to do this! It
is my nature!"
These frank, and often
sorrowful, admissions are not good enough for some.
Why is that?
Another case of mistaken identity
Isn't it strange?
We have a whole class of individuals, an
entire substrata, who keep telling us, "I
did not make a choice! This is how I really feel! This
is how I am made! This is who I am!"
But we have another group, largely, The
Fundamentalists, who stand in grave judgment and say, "No, you don't feel that way, that is not who
you are, you're lying - admit it, you made a
choice!"
There is something very
unsavory, very inhumane, something very wrong, with this picture!
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Editor's
note: The term "fundamentalist" comes from the
title of a book, The Fundamentals, published in the
early 1900s by some ultra-conservative Roman Catholic priests.
Their central theme asserted that the Bible is 100%, every word,
dropped from heaven, an Infallible Authority, God's own
instruction manual to us! too bad these guys studied only their
own censored, church-approved literature; too bad they ended up
believing their own propaganda; too bad they didn't read my "15
points" -
see
P.S. #22
- because, as Judy said, if they
really believe what they say, then, obviously, they've never read
the Bible!
Almost 40 years ago, Art Mokarow, addressing
a group of theology students, offered to us a veiled
warning... which went
something like this:
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"People get mixed
up, screwed up, in their heads by a lot of things in this troubled
world. But if you get screwed up because of religion, you will
hurt yourself, more deeply, and to a greater degree, than
is possible in any other area of life!"
I have thought of this many
times over the years. How true are his words, and all of history
bears testimony to the veracity of his dictum!
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Because once people convince themselves
that "God is on our side," and "We know what God is thinking,"
then you better be careful, because it
won't be long before the shooting starts! The Nazi
SS, too, displayed proudly on their belt-buckles:
God is with us!
In P.S. #19,
22 I spoke of "mistaken identity," how some misguided
religious people will seek for psychological security and
safety in the notion of an Infallible Book, in the fantastic
notion that God writes books! and they will
link their own sense of personal identity to this!
When Fundamentalists
condemn homosexuality, they, in actuality, are defending their
Infallible Book - which, they believe, condemns such activity.
But, there's more happening here. There's too much hostility,
too much negative energy, involved in these debates, these attacks
upon the gay community, for this merely to be about defending
a Book. The real issue at stake is the
survival of a personal identity
that has been linked to private opinions regarding
God, life, death, and how the universe works... and that's what
really going on in these heated debates!
Love In
The AfterLife... for everyone!
Several of my forthcoming articles will
continue to address Love In The AfterLife... I submit to you that our friends in the Gay
Community shall not be excluded from this wonderful
future!

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Editor's note:
This scientist
makes the soundly-reasoned claim that there will never be
a holistic view of the universe without including the evidence for
the AfterLife.
Isn't it amazing, as the
scientists (above) state, that homosexuality occurs
naturally in so many forms of
life? And yet, there are self-appointed ones who try to preach to
the rest of us their own version of "normal"!
If
homosexuality occurs naturally within the spectrum of "fruit-flies
to sheep," doesn't that mean it's "normal"? I grew up witnessing this process virtually
everyday among the various farm animals. I thought little about
these things at the time as it was so common! Sounds like
"normal" to me!
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Silver Birch:
"The
greatest love is the love that has no trace of selfishness, that
does not seek in any way to perform any action because it will
bring some satisfaction to the individual. That is human love in
its greatest aspect. It is the spirit that has enthused all who
desire to uplift mankind, to help the needy, to sustain the
weak, to fight the vested interests that prevent the unfortunate
from extracting the beauty that life could offer them... The real love ... embraces the whole of
humanity.
You are not an
evolved soul until you can say, because you believe it, I
love all mankind."
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