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Word Gems What is a man but the sum of his
thoughts?
Love
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If we love others, we live in the
light.
1 John 2: 10
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links:
Love:
agape - Godly Love
Love: eros
- Romantic Love
Love: philia - Brotherly Love

Dr. Gary E. Schwartz, Univ. of
Arizona:
The AfterLife
Experiments
Fyodor Dostoyevsky, The Brothers Karamazov:
"A man who lies to himself, and believes his own
lies, becomes unable to recognize truth, either in himself or in
anyone else, and he ends up losing respect for himself and for
others. When he has no respect for anyone, he can no longer
love, and in him, he yields to his impulses, indulges in the lowest
form of pleasure, and behaves in the end like an animal in
satisfying his vices. And it all comes from lying - to others and to
yourself."
E.M. Forster: "You want to
love everyone equally, and that's worse than impossible - it's
wrong."
Henri-Frédéric Amiel: "Life is short and we have never
too much time for gladdening the hearts of those who are traveling
the dark journey with us. Oh, be swift to love, make haste to be
kind."
Wolfgang Amadeus Mozart: "Neither a lofty degree of
intelligence nor imagination nor both together go to the making of
genius. Love, love, love, that is the soul of genius."
Australian Aboriginal Proverb: "We
are all visitors to this time, this place. We are just passing
through. Our purpose here is to observe, to learn, to grow, to
love... and then we return home."
Sanaya Roman: "What you love is a sign from your higher
self of what you are to do."
Billie Holiday: "You've got to have something to eat
and a little love in your life before you can hold still for any
damn body's sermon on how to behave."
Leslie Weatherhead, Life Begins At Death: "Think
of F.W.H. Myers saying,
through a reputable medium like Geraldine Cummins, 'If only I could
tell you what [the AfterLife is] like; I just haven't the words to
tell you how marvelous it is; the sense of beauty, the sense of
freedom, the sense of love'..."
Professor Daniel N. Robinson, Georgetown University:
Robinson, referring to Aristotle's essay on friendship, asserts that
relationships based on sensuality will endure as
long as the parties are in receipt of such commodity;
likewise, those based on utility will remain operative as long as
the parties involved find each other mutually useful. There is, however, a "friendship grounded in virtue,
such that one desires for one's friend what is best for one's
friend, and this for the sake of one's friend. This is perfected or
completed friendship (teleia
philia), for its aims do not go outside the friendship itself...
teleia philia is not characteristic of most
friendships... A perfected friendship is possible only
between those who are relevantly equal, though the measure of
equality is not quantitative but proportional: as the audience and
the great performer are not equal, but each grants to the other what
is due: that is sufficient equality." [i.e. there is mutual respect;
more than this, an appreciation, e.g., for the talents of others
based on the observer's study and dedication to
refinement.]
Near-death experiencer, www.near-death.com: "I felt
love - so much more than romantically, when you fall in love," she
said. "In that moment I felt integrated, I became a different
person. After that... I'm not religious, but I wanted to go help
people."
Willa Cather: "Where there is great love there are
always miracles."
David McCullough: (paraphrased, from the PBS
documentary on the life of John Adams) "Love is more than looking
into each other's eyes. Love is looking and walking forward -
together."
William James: “Our lives are like
islands in the sea, or like trees in the forest, which co-mingle
their roots in the darkness underground.” [Editor's note:
this has been paraphrased as "separate on the surface, connected at
the depths"]
Michael Talbot, Holographic Universe:
commenting on the insight of Sri Yukteswar: "Individuals who live
[on the OtherSide, when] confronted with the multitude of relatives,
fathers, mothers, wives, husbands, and friends acquired during their
'different incarnations on earth,' they are at a loss as to whom to
love especially and thus learn to give 'a divine and equal love to
all.'"
Deepak Chopra: "The secret of
attraction is to love yourself. Attractive people judge
neither themselves nor others. They are open to gestures of love.
They think about love in every action. They know that love is not a
mere sentiment, but the ultimate truth at the heart of the
universe."
Buddha: "You can search throughout the entire universe
for someone who is more deserving of your love and affection than
you are yourself, and that person is not to be found anywhere; you yourself, as much as anybody in the entire
universe, deserve your love and affection."
Oscar Wilde: "Where there
is no extravagance there is no love."
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